My mother is struggling with a gambling addiction while she is homeless. In just 4 months I am fed up with living with her. She doesn't help with bills, her addiction to gambling means she is constantly broke and asking for money, her gambling is so bad that even if she wins she will keep gambling until she has lost it all back to the casino. She also won't help clean or buy household products. She does cook and buy groceries but I hate to admit it but the little help doesn't relieve to the stress i feel coming home. Sometimes i work all day because i just hate the thought of coming home and seeing her. When i bring it up to her she gets into a pity party instead of picking up the slack. She makes the conversation about how she feels instead of realizing that she is constantly draining me. She won't save any money and she is negative. I hate feeling like the bad guy but i know that my feelings are valid and she just refuses to see things from my point of view. I have flat out told her that i am tired of living with people. I know she is my mother but i moved out 4 years ago and have been letting people live with me the entire time. Im tired of being such a helping hand and i want her to leave but she is very irresponsible and she can't get back on her feet anytime soon. So i let her stay and feel miserable every day
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Also my anger comes from me actually needing help with bills. When she first moved with me i told her fo keep hed money and save it to get back on her feet but when i realized how bad hed gambling was it was insulting because i am struggling and she just throws all her money away then asks me for money constantly
