Is this normal? He gives money to the kids but not me?

[Cherry-pick]

what to do when your baby’s daddy will not acknowledge all of the times I handed him money he keeps acting and voice in to me that I never help him i’ve given him $500 I have bought him a $600 bike and give him $100 a day for like two weeks all in one month not counting the 15 years I supported him and paid rent and smart and PG&E he did not pay nothing why does he constantly dismiss everything that I do?

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Amen he is 10
My son

[Finchie40]

Cuz it sounds like your baby daddy is selfish and only cares about himself and you are just a convenience to him , People that are selfish do things like this , they prioritize everyone else but their partner. Why so many relationships don’t make it , it’s manipulative and controlling tactic , He loves his kids but he doesn’t really love you

[Finchie40]

Thanks for MHO , my advice to you is to not sleep with him anymore and focus on yourself , find someone that values you the same way you value them , the only way a relationship can work and love to grow is you both need to remove selfishness for each other and sacrifice for each other , You can’t be happy in a relationship that is one sided , so removing selfishness is key factor , it’s a hard cookie to swallow cuz not all relationships are perfect and at times we can feel we are being taken for granted , and sometimes we are , communication is key , if someone isn’t fighting to be with you the same way you are fighting to be with them it won’t work , so removing selfishness and treating someone the same way you want to be treated is the only way love will grow, you have to understand it won’t always go your way but being loyal and faithful is key , if someone cheats on you that’s something they have to live with knowing they are the piece of shit , they are only wasting their time by keeping it a secret and not admitting to their actions , Your baby daddy is a selfish person , he is only thinking of himself , kick his ass to the curb and find someone that makes you a priority like you make them , cuz you are Totally being used

[RawIronhide]

I see why he left u. It's all us and ours till you break up right, then you want reperations and you were keeping track to hold it against him. Even though he's taking care of his kids you want more from him.

[Stevefiveo]

He's an asshole.

[Cherry-pick]

Thank you

[Stevefiveo]

Welcome. Hopefully it isn't too long until your baby is 18 and not have to deal with him anymore.

[Stevefiveo]

My baby Mom still manges to cause drama and my kids are 21 and 18.