I had all my kids between 25-29. We wanted to have all our kids before we turned 30. I did not want to be 60 years old still dealing with college tuition.
I would've been a dad at 15 but he was full term stillborn. So I suppose that's the youngest, and the oldest would be 36-40 maybe? The older I get the younger the mom would need to be to compensate for my dwindling energy 😅
I definitely wasn't emotionally or mentally prepared, especially for how things turned out.. so I don't know. Didn't know who I was at that time. Hard to say how things mightve been.
Youngest I would say 25.. oldest 35 .. My dad had me at 44 years old. He gave me the best childhood... but losing him at 38 was sooo hard as is any age
I don't know about the youngest I'd have been comfortable with it since it hasn't happened yet but I first really started wanting children around 18 & would like to have 1 or 2 by 25 but I don't expect to stop wanting them until I have them.
At first I was like I Wana have a kid when am like 25. Fuck it lolBut now I think that at around 35 at least I should start making a family lol for real.
That is the most stupidest bull shit I have ever heard in my life. Just remember you asked the question I gave an honest answer. She was 14 she was my Mother's daughters best friend another words she an her Mother was my Mother's best friend. God Bless
Is there a reason you're getting aggressive? I said i didn't know it was possible. So why not tell me it is rather than calling me stupid for not having had sex at age 9 to know
I didn't say its your fault. Im just throwing back everything you throw at me. I figured two could play the game better than one 🤷♀️ But i’m done with the conversation. there's nothing more to say
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I had all my kids between 25-29. We wanted to have all our kids before we turned 30. I did not want to be 60 years old still dealing with college tuition.
I fully agree! You got the golden ages that i wanted. Now i only have 3 of those golden years left to get bizzaayyy
I would've been a dad at 15 but he was full term stillborn. So I suppose that's the youngest, and the oldest would be 36-40 maybe? The older I get the younger the mom would need to be to compensate for my dwindling energy 😅
Im sorry for your loss. But at the same time would you have been ready at 15?
I was working, had my own apartment and was married. As ready as I could've been I suppose
Oh yea then you were on point
I definitely wasn't emotionally or mentally prepared, especially for how things turned out.. so I don't know. Didn't know who I was at that time. Hard to say how things mightve been.
Well at least you’re more so ready now and i’m sure you’re a great dad to your little one
They seem to like me enough lol and they're fed, clothed, clean, have more toys than they can keep up with and a roof over their head.
I could stand to try and be less cranky though and less emotionally distant in general
Yea be emotionally distant from anyone else that you want but not your kids
It's difficult sometimes. They remind me of a lot of painful things, I'm working on it. Have a counselor.
I’d be most comfortable getting pregnant after 26, and freaked out about having a child at my current age 😅
I’d stop having them after 35/36.
26 is a very random number? Is it just because its after25
It's because I still have 4 years of Uni, a traineeship and then I'd want to work and travel a bit before having kids 😅
Ahh makes all the sense in the world
I would have liked to have been married and had kids earlier in my 20s.
Had my first at 18 and I was happy with that. Plan on stopping at 30 and getting my tubes removed.
Yep i want my tubes tied at 32
I think age 428 would have been the earliest. Was having too much fun before then.
What numbers am i seeing 🤣
Sorry, should have been 28
My first child was actually born when I was 37
Okay i assumed 428 meant never
I'm glad I had my first child at 18, I was young enough to be there for her. I want to have more children for as long as I'm able to reproduce.
I think any earlier than 23 would have freaked me out. My kids came at just the right time. 💕
Aww thats amazing
19... and oldest would be 40 i guess... but i never thought much bout it i just know i want kids in future
Well thats good
Thats good at all costs😂
Oh i thought u replied to the one we just talked on... my reply is for that one😂
Youngest I would have to say 19 when I graduated from high school. Oldest is basically like if it happens then it happens and things of that nature
Even at 50?
Nope not 50. Till like 35 then that’s it
Youngest I would say 25.. oldest 35 .. My dad had me at 44 years old. He gave me the best childhood... but losing him at 38 was sooo hard as is any age
Awww i bet
the younger the better... as long as it's done properly
I don't know about the youngest I'd have been comfortable with it since it hasn't happened yet but I first really started wanting children around 18 & would like to have 1 or 2 by 25 but I don't expect to stop wanting them until I have them.
Well thats good :)
youngest… 24 cause I can afford raising a child by then.
oldest… 35
Sounds good
The youngest would probably be about 26
For me the oldest would probably be about 34-35ish
At first I was like I Wana have a kid when am like 25. Fuck it lolBut now I think that at around 35 at least I should start making a family lol for real.
Yea maybe
Here lol it is not all that common to find parents at the age of 14. So here it is around the age of 20.
Youngest mid 20s. Oldest 35. Not willing to risk it beyond that.
I dont blame you. Thats why im hoping before 30s as well
Unfortunately the way life is going I'll have to adopt or something if I want kids.
I’d say try for at least one
I just want ro mention that those who had to do work, parenting, and school probably didn't do as well as you think they did.
They did well enough and didn't have to abort and not be responsible for their actions was my point.
I'm ready an willing now an at the youngest maybe 9 or 10 .
God Bless
9 wtf lmao
If u say I didn't have one then at that age then it must be true because u are God his self.
God Bless
No im saying thats its shocking if someone can have one that young
That is the most stupidest bull shit I have ever heard in my life.
Just remember you asked the question I gave an honest answer.
She was 14 she was my Mother's daughters best friend another words she an her Mother was my Mother's best friend.
God Bless
Is there a reason you're getting aggressive? I said i didn't know it was possible. So why not tell me it is rather than calling me stupid for not having had sex at age 9 to know
Then Please choose your words more carefully thank you.
God Bless
No you should read fully through before snapping
Oh It's my fault.
I don't know that very good ur not going to make me believe that bull shit.
God Bless
An by the way I did read fully through it.
God Bless
I didn't say its your fault. Im just throwing back everything you throw at me. I figured two could play the game better than one 🤷♀️ But i’m done with the conversation. there's nothing more to say
Ok.
God Bless
40 or 45
kids r like cherry on top not necessary
I wouldve said pets are more of the cherry on top
Well I would say no younger than 24 no older than 30 by the time your 50 they’re 20! your still young enough to keep up with them..
Exactly haha