I personally would’ve been comfortable having a kid anytime after graduating high school, so 18+. Back then the goal was to have 12 kids haha. I think 24 would’ve been the perfect age to have a kid and i would’ve been most comfortable at that point because i for sure would’ve had the finances. I’ve always hoped to conceive before I hit 30 because I’ve never had intentions of birthing in my 30s. But I’d love to have one other kid through adoption later in my 30s.
My first boyfriend kept threatening to get me pregnant in high school, and even though I’ve wanted to be a mom since age 3, having been a teen mom would’ve freaked me out. I knew I wasn't ready physically nor financially back then and needed to wait. But had it happened, I would’ve womaned up and took care of the very thing I always wanted. In fact, I went to a school where most got pregnant between 14-18 and the ones who gave birth did well balancing work/parenting/school. They even married at 18 and went to college and are now on like baby 3. As for the rest, they either miscarried or aborted. #FeelFreeToList #BabyFever
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