Love isn't possible past 21 for a female?

[dab123123]

Does anyone feel like their is a wall as a female when you get closer to 22 than 21 that after that your looking for companionship not love. just someone to die with, maybe children. Men are like argh wait till she reaches 30 but I think we as women know that its 21 because after 21 there's basically no difference I don't know why men are obsessed with 30.
I think a lot of young girls feel guilty for preferring older guys becuase older women are like its paedophilia its this and that when its not. but they were young and suddnely they have amnesia. But anyway I think the reason divorces are so high is becuase as women I think a lot of us wouldve gone for 50+ year old men when we were 21 if not for the stigma.

[normalice]

Men face a similar form of "settling" only we transition from lust to companionship. But we do it much later in life. For women, the concept of love is a little bit like the concept of magic: you need to believe in it and if you don't believe in it you stop seeing evidence of it. Love is, thus, the belief in love more so than anything tangible. I suspect a main reason men take longer to phase out of their lust is because its easier to believe women are horny all the time when things like porn literally shows exactly that. So there's no "belief" needed, when guys can see it for themselves.

[EssenceOfLight]

If you rethink love in a rational way, the result will be less favorable for "falling in love". On the other hand the emotional part of our egos craves for being loved by someone. People try to satisfy this particular need with substitutes like pets, children, seeking in other people feelings which aren't there.
While the solution is very simple. Putting your guard down for someone you trust a little bit seems to be risky, but can be satisfying. You don't need to play "all in" like with your first partner you have maybe really loved and you can always change your mind if necessary. However having the courage and self-confidence is for most people the difficult part.

[Adele_26]

I fucking hope not lmao I turn 21 in a week 💀

As of right now, I’m not so focused on love, but that doesn’t mean I have no hope for finding it. For me, my 20s are basically me going through self discovery. I’m a hopeless romantic who’s been through too much bullshit to settle bc of loneliness. If my soulmate (bc I’m not accepting lessons anymore lol) comes along for the ride, awesome. If not, awesome. I think age is only controversial when you’re 18 or younger. I wouldn’t question a 21 year old woman for dating a man in his late 30s or 40s, unless the man was showing signs of abuse.

[AFellowWeeb]

[MzAsh]

Girl I don’t even think you understand how much is out there yet.

[boggboss]

Lol this is a really out there statement and sounds more off how u feel over basic fact if u want to date someone older then just do it plenty off women your age do it why let others tell u who u can date seems stupid the only reason there is a wall for u is because u put it there

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Anyone can find love at any age and because a man is age 50+ doesn't say he can't keep up with you and there are a lot of things he can do to make you feel good sexually

[HawkPerception]

What a sad question. I would assume that there are many that are looking for love.

[SirJohn42]

I bet you are a keeper just for the right guy. Dont over think things. Im sure guys like you.
Im pretty sure there are guys who dont just want you for sex.

[COMMODOREII]

Yeah there is a kit of stigma out there and a lot of hate from other women. You just need to do what is good for you and stop listening to everyone else.

[Bklynbadboy12]

Well a lot of younger girl go for older guys I get hit on by young girls a lot. You have to live you life according to how you see fit but if you gonna be with someone be them for love other wise it won't work

[Anonymous]

Do you live under rock or in some poor 3rd world country?

All what you wrote would make some minimal sense only there...

Or you just trying to find some excuse to date women, just do it and stop searching for excuses...

[Cicero79]

Before 21 it's mostly about sex.

At some point during the 20s real love is possible without the emphasis on sex. At that point, divorce lessens in my thinking.

[Browneye57]

This level of confusion is astounding. Absolutely stunning.

[AFellowWeeb]

Depends, were you a hoe b4 you reached 21? than its around 25, but if you were not, than its around 30 or 35 maybe.

[AFellowWeeb]

The thing is that women are the main ones that want to ''discover themselves'' ( cock carousell ) on earlier ages, than only want to ''look for love'' ( settle down ) on late twenties, when their youth starts fading away.

[Wise4myage]

I think its absurd to believe that. People of all ages find love.

[bamesjond0069]

Yeah. Girls its best to settle down asap. For men its not though. 30s are better.

[anylolone]

You think your wall is 21?
Lol.
It's probably more like 25.

[BlacklightShade]

No. It’s too late now. Sorry.

[PrincetonGirl97]

Hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahhahahaha... No.

[Avicenna]

You’re can find love at any age

[sheikalana]

That's complete nonsense.

[JamesRandiDebates]

30 is when women's looks disappear.

[Agape93]

No that’s nonsense

[Anonymous]

Poor child, you clearly need counseling.