I do not hate women. It just seems that they are not interested in relationships with guys who are not bad boys or rich. It's just I'm 39 no girlfriend a $30 an hour job, decent looking and women don't bat an eye at me. I'm not interested in being in an open relationship or weird sex crap. I just want love. I'm not an alcoholic or smoke anything. I believe in treating women with respect. It's just I feel too old to be trying anymore. People just lie cheat and have no respect for each other anymore. Im just wondering if it's too late for me.
It's only too late for you if you think "people just lie, cheat and have no respect for each other anymore."
Meet people and befriend them at your gym, at meetups doing softball, volleyball or other games, interests. Chess, robotics, book clubs. When you make friends, friends often introduce you to people you have mutual interests with.
It'll take an investment of time. But I think there's always hope until you're dead.
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I’m on the same boat but worse. I’m a woman. Men tend to have it better as they age while women have it harder.
I still will advise not to give up.
most people think I’ll end up alone, and as real as that seems to me as well I still hope to prove them wrong. I pray tonight for you and me to find love hah! 🤓not kidding! 🙏🙏❤️❤️
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You sound like you could be a good boyfriend
Was is with this "Too late" shit people get married in there 90's and find love. It is only too late if you give up and stop trying to meet new people.
No, it isn't. It requires patience. Also, people have become really fickle and crappy compared to when we were in our teens and 20s. Hang in there. It's never too late!
For men it’s not too old according to society…for women it would be to them for biological reasons
Nope, it’s not.
My great great grandpa married her second wife when he was 47.
Definitely not too old. You actually sound like my ideal man. Anyway, I hope you find that special lady to spend your life with. 😊
I don’t think you’re too old at all. My brother found his wife in his 40s. Plus at your age women outgrew the bad boy thing. That’s more for teenagers and early 20s.
I completely agree with you. People suck. But I feel like it's never too late so probably there is a genuine soul for you out there.
I know an old guy who just got married at 63 and one of my clients at work is regularly dating at 72 years old.
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