Friend picking out my flaws?

[Anonymous]

I have this friend who every time I come around she has to pick out some flaw of mine and comment on it. I don’t do it to her so why does she have to do it to me?

[Espresso-Grande]

Ask her why. Then decide if it's really the type of friendship that you want based on her answer.

Some insecure people with low self-esteem point out other people's flaws, because it boosts their confidence and ego. She sounds like a very toxic friend.

[JoyGirl]

Hmmm…good question. Talk to her about it, and tell her you don’t like it. She isn’t being a good friend.

[Wise4myage]

She is not a good friend, have you told her how much it bothers you? If not, then you need too.

[slatyb]

She's very insecure and that's how she copes. What are you getting out of this friendship?

[ShadowMonarch]

Looks like some kind of inferiority complex