Best friend picking at MY insecurities?

[Anonymous]

Whenever I talk to her I come away feeling… bad about myself. My BFF constantly picks at the fact that I have smaller boobs than her, saying “my boobs are bigger than yours aren’t I lucky” and saying “I would look better in your dresses than you because of my boobs and curves.” she brings it up in front of other people as well. She always has to bring up my lack of boobs out of the blue. How can I tell her this hurts my feelings? I feel uncomfortable confronting her about it I don't know why.

[Diodoro]

1. She already knows
2. You could bring it up but why bother

I'm not one to say dump a friend quickly, big on loyalty. But this girl isn't your friend. You should dump this one and spend time with others.

Forget who said the quote but it's accurate, "before you say you're feeling depressed, first find out if you're spending all your time around assholes"

Like your friends should not be ripping on you like that in general, especially not consistently. Time to get a new friend.

[Waldoe]

write her a very short note... "I hate when you disrespect me and put me down, please stop..." and hand it to her... turn around... and walk away

[Waldoe]

give her time to think about the message... maybe a few hours, before you let her start making "excuses"

[Anonymous]

What your friend is doing is body-shaming and outright mean. If she knows you’re insecure about it, as your friend she should be making you feel better about it, not worse. Maybe there’s jealousy of something about you and she picks at your “perceived weakness” to feel better. I would distance myself personally

[EmmaMary]

I would seriously be looking for a New Best Friend.

[EmmaMary]

Thank you for the MHGirl.

[steveRogers12]

Just be direct with her. She may actually be insecure about herself, which is why she brings it up, not trying to be mean to you