My friend always points out my flaws. Many times she would point out and say that my hair was “crazy” even though it really was not. And one time i was on a call with her, she said that her hair was crazy. I then started realizing that she was insecure about her own hair and she was taking it out on ME! I decided to confront her, i said that she was doing this because she was insecure and i told that i was confident with myself and happy. She told me that she had nothing to be insecure about “just look at me, what is something i can be insecure about? nothing!” i just stared at her and ignored her. Even after this encounter she continued to shame me for all the thing she was insecure about. One again she said i had a big forehead though i clearly don’t. then a day later she told me her forehead was big… at this point i was getting annoyed and questioning myself. Even today (weeks after) she pointed out the smaller flaw, one of my tiny baby hairs were poking out. I don’t understand why she’s so obsessed with pointing out my flaws, can someone please explain this? Also i’m trying to be the better person here so i’m not going to respond back to her and make fun of her as she did to me cause that is morally wrong. (fyi- i posted this same question on another account i just want more people to see this!)
Why is my friend always pointing out my flaws?
