Should I stand up and face these friends at why they disregard and ignore me for what they did?
Im very piS**% off at the small group of "so called" friends I have after seeing a photo of them together yesterday at some birthday celebration at some bar. The friends who attended are supposed to b e the same group of friends that we share a Whatssp private group. These friends in the past we had gathered together at a bar or at the house of one of them. We were former classmates from high school (looong time ago) but a few we keep seeing still. This particular group we had manage to get together once during pandemic in 2020 and then another time in 2021. We are just 7 female friends. During the pandemic we really could not hang out and we all agree on that. We all agree that after the crisis ended we should see each other again. Since we could nto see personally, before as the crisis were starting to decrease in the chat group we text about resuming and plan to see each other again. I was the one always taking the initiative to text and give the idea to hang out in the groupand the one who always was saying lets get together lets get together, lets organize something to go out to a bar or a house and lets set a place or day the majority could and have no prior committments (as most of them are married and have families but grown up kids anyway). In the group there are only 2 single ladies, me and anotehr lady.
During the times I always texted and suggested the idea to hang out most of them always reply "Sure lets do something". The time passed and noone follow up anything, pure blah blah and nothing. Then that silence from them as they stop texting or even suggesting anything to go out for plan anything finished as through social media I discovered, 4 of these female friends gathered together at some music bar in town to celebrate the 50th birthday of 2 other former classmates from high school, classmates that do not even belong to the small female
Im very piS**% off at the small group of "so called" friends I have after seeing a photo of them together yesterday at some birthday celebration at some bar. The friends who attended are supposed to b e the same group of friends that we share a Whatssp private group. These friends in the past we had gathered together at a bar or at the house of one of them. We were former classmates from high school (looong time ago) but a few we keep seeing still. This particular group we had manage to get together once during pandemic in 2020 and then another time in 2021. We are just 7 female friends. During the pandemic we really could not hang out and we all agree on that. We all agree that after the crisis ended we should see each other again. Since we could nto see personally, before as the crisis were starting to decrease in the chat group we text about resuming and plan to see each other again. I was the one always taking the initiative to text and give the idea to hang out in the groupand the one who always was saying lets get together lets get together, lets organize something to go out to a bar or a house and lets set a place or day the majority could and have no prior committments (as most of them are married and have families but grown up kids anyway). In the group there are only 2 single ladies, me and anotehr lady.
During the times I always texted and suggested the idea to hang out most of them always reply "Sure lets do something". The time passed and noone follow up anything, pure blah blah and nothing. Then that silence from them as they stop texting or even suggesting anything to go out for plan anything finished as through social media I discovered, 4 of these female friends gathered together at some music bar in town to celebrate the 50th birthday of 2 other former classmates from high school, classmates that do not even belong to the small female
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chat group Im belong. These 2 particular ones are not even a members of my group, but surprise the 4 classmates I know and are part of the group gathered with those other 2 plust other 2 former classmates guys who are also not part of the chat group either.
I am so dissapointed and mad, because the one who may had organized that get together never took me into account to join them, never invited me, they completely ignore me.
In the past I am the always trying to set up gatherings with them
I am so dissapointed and mad, because the one who may had organized that get together never took me into account to join them, never invited me, they completely ignore me.
In the past I am the always trying to set up gatherings with them
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and they all say yes lets do something, but at the end they never followed up and bla blah, but then suddenly 4 of th em hang out yesterday to celebrate the 50`s of 2 other classmates (that we do know) but are not even part of our chat group. and I was totally ignored as they do not invite me oir take me into account. Im so dissapointed. Their attitude was like little girls. Should I text one of the ladies who went and ask her why they did not take me into account? What was wrong with it?
