Girls, would you do this to a guy that you only see as a friend?

[Anonymous]

So I know this girl since 2017 my office mate and just this last week I told her I liked her.

She did not said anything (did not rejected me, did not told me that she liked me back)

Asked her out on a date, she said yes then she asked me to go out drinking with her.
During the night at her place we were sitting in the gutter of a pool while she is drunk.

Trying not to be obvious, I tried to put my arm beside her shoulder In a friendly way and I guessed she noticed since she grabbed my hand and wrapped it around her in a romantic way while holding hands.

After our romantic moment, she introduced me to her friends and family while still being drunk. Surprisingly, they already know me as a guy who is courting her.

I don't know if she's just drunk or flirting or into me as well.

[PrettyPriya]

It is both drunk and flirting. One led to the other. Alcohol lowers inhibitions and causes people to do things they usually wouldn’t. Does that mean she doesn’t like you? No, not at all. What it means is she did some things that she otherwise wouldn’t have done if not intoxicated.

She may have waited until date three or four or even longer before becoming affectionate but this night, fueled by alcohol, she let loose with her inhibitions and was handsy.

She did, after all, agree to the date in the first place. So, she had some level of feelings towards you or she wouldn’t have accepted. I would recommend the next date not involving alcohol so you two can really get to know each other. That will give you both an idea if a relationship is possible and worth the effort.

[PrettyPriya]

Thank you kindly for the MHO. 🙂

[Guccigabbana18]

She's definitely flirting with you. We don't let guys touch us like that if we aren't into them. Also, her family and friends knowing about you in a romantic sense is a good sign. I've touched guys who are just close friends when drunk but not like that, and I wouldn't tell my friends about them.

[dustybiker]

You claimed she was drunk. You can’t hold her to anything when she is under the influence.

[Anonymous]

People do dumb things when they are drunk.