Do you think kids need to respect their mother's even if they're unfit parents?

[Anonymous]

Personally I don't eow my mom nothing she forced me to clean the whole house when I was a child and watch after my younger siblings. My mom is selfish I was rob in my teenage years because she forced me to watch my younger siblings all the time while she went out hang out with friends.

[Peanut38]

Respect definitely has to be earned, even as a parent. For example, if a child had no respect for their parents because the parents had the child without being able to provide for it properly, it would be completely understandable.
Your situation just sounds like relatively normal parenting though.

[Subarugirl]

That's called growing up... especially as an older sibling.

[Asker]

What exactly do you mean?

[Subarugirl]

I mean that is normal. Just because your mother has you babysit your younger sibling and clean the house doesn't make them an unfit parent.

[Asker]

I hope you never have children. She choose to has my siblings not me. She was stupid for not using birth control.

[Subarugirl]

My son is very happy, I also had three younger sibling that I watched over constantly growing up. That what good older siblings do. I'm not saying the my mother didn't have issues she had plenty, but having me baby sit my younger sibling and clean the house wasn't one of them.
You are too old to be acting like a whiny teenager. The teenage years aren't that great anyways so consider your self lucky that you missed out on most of the drama.

[Asker]

You're way to young to be a mom already. Your stupid for not using protection didn't you learn enough how hard it is to raised a kid since your lazy useless mom couldn't watch after them. Young mom isn't something to be proud of. Maybe your the one that needs growing up I am 20 going to college. My mom wants me back to help with my siblings but that is not my job that's her fault for not using birth control. Your mother was stupid too for not using birth control Popping more kids then what she can handle. Irresponsible , Are you even still with your son's dad?

[Subarugirl]

My husband and I have been married for 5 years, I have been working in the automotive industry for nearly 7, and he has his doctorate and has been in practice for 3 years. We own a house, which we bought a year and a half ago, and our son is enrolled in a private school for this coming school year... what were you saying about growing up?

[Asker]

You are supposed to have you're first baby at age over 30!!!

[Subarugirl]

according to who?

[Subarugirl]

Because the overwhelming about of literature that I have read about the best time to get pregnant is in a woman's 20s... at least that's what the science indicates... your college hasn't taught you that?

[Agape93]

No. Respect is earned.

[Asker]

Exactly birth control plan b is always available.

[Agape93]

Yeap. All else fails, get an abortion.

[BarryLiverstone]

Yes you should respect her and also thank her

[Asker]

I don't eow her crap birth control plan b. If you can't handle and be a responsible parent don't have kids at all simple.

[BarryLiverstone]

As a parent she taught you responsibility in house cleaning skills and that helped you stay out of trouble as a kid. You are the older sibling so it’s your role to take care of younger ones on occasion. As an adult she is allowed to go out from time to time and be social with friends.

What am I missing?

[Subarugirl]

And as a member of the household it was your responsbility to help out.

[Asker]

The two of you are retarded you know there's things thing called birth control!!!
No it was never my responsibility she choose to have me and my siblings that was her job not mine.

[BarryLiverstone]

Tbh calling us ‘retarded’ only demonstrates your ignorance. Peace

[Asker]

@Subarugirl Why didn't you used protection or got an abortion?

[Subarugirl]

I did use protection hon, and when I found out I was pregnant I made the choice to keep it.

[BarryLiverstone]

And I bet looking back you would make the same decision. Kids are not burden, they are a blessing right?

[Subarugirl]

I stand by the choices that I make, Im just thankful that I have the freedom to make them. Every person in a family should play a contributing roll, including the children. My 5 year already has age appropriate chores like picking up his toys, putting the clean silverware away and feeding the cat. Responsibility is taught, and learning how to contribute to your household should start in childhood.

[Asker]

@Subarugirl I feel sorry and you are way way way to young to have a 5 year old. Why didn't you waited to had kids at age 30? Retard!

[BarryLiverstone]

@Asker you sound like a guy with a pink account. Why do that?

[Subarugirl]

Because I wanted to and my husband and I had the financial stability to do so. By the time he is 10 I will be in my 30s and still be able to keep up with him.