People with no kids, Do you want kids? People with kids, Did you originally want one?

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ohshee · Accepted Answer

When I was 5 years old I found out that my dad was not my real dad that guy used to beat me with a belt if I did anything that he thought was wrong I never could understand beating somebody the way he used to beat me and then say I love you I never understood that when I was 10 they divorced 12 my mom remarried he put his hands on me once for just a few seconds at sixteen I moved out so I basically have always had to find my own way I swear if I ever had children I would do completely opposite of my dad for sure I didn't meet him until I was 27 my mom did what she could do and I respect and I appreciate the number for that but I just thought I had a better way to raise children so I always said when I have them they will become the smartest the greatest kids around and that's what that happened the day that my son was conceived we are on vacation and I knew at that moment I got her pregnant he is now a fireman paramedic I never had to yell at him and never threatened him I never spanked him all I would do is give him some simple words very, very quiet for maybe about two minutes and it was done and over with if you did something wrong having a child is the most powerful thing that can happen to a human being it is a responsibility that you do not take lightly I felt my job was to make my kids 2 times better than me in every way and that means as a parent you have to be thinking at all times because your child stares at you everything that you do and mimics everything you do they learn why the words you say they learn by your actions your body language your tone of voice and if you want your child to be good you have to understand all of this you have to be a teacher twenty-four hours a day so you don't put that input into the only good positive input you don't do anything wrong around them you don't say things about other people you don't there's a lot of things you have to do you got to be on top of it when you when you have a child your goal should be making that child the best human being that you can possibly make

Rockstarrrrr · Accepted Answer

When I hang out with my little nephews they gave me joy but I still think it's not for me because I think my children should be my responsibility for life even when they're old and I'm not sure I can guarantee them that so I don't want to start something I'm not sure I could finish... I still don't know if I would ever change my mind in the future...

Brittanyroseee · Accepted Answer

No i value my privacy, money, freedom, career, over kids. I wanna do whatever i want whenever i want and not be tied down to a huge responsibility. I’d rather have pets. I love animals so much more and i work with them so i would much rather deal with a puppy than a baby. I certainly do not want to deal with human baby feces and diaper changing. I’d rather deal with dog poop and cat litter and soiled puppy pads… babies are not even cute tbh. I don’t see the hype about them? My friends have babies and i will ignore their child but pay attention to their dog or cat. I also do not want to spend any of my money on my child whatsoever! I don’t want to be a mom, i want to work have a career and make money. Last thing, I certainly will not push something the size of a melon out of me. No thanks! I would never sacrifice my life for my child.. no offense lol. I don’t want kids to be my universe, i want my husband and my career to be my world not kids.

Changiis07 · Accepted Answer

Yes and no. I’m at the age where if I have them it would be nice but also I love my sleep and being single and no kids feels good too. On the other hand I’d love to be a mom but not in this generation where kids are getting confused as to what gender they are etc

Cynicaldreamer · Answer

I have no kids, and NO I have no interest in ever having kids. Why?

I like having money, peace and quiet, doing what I want, and my independence. In addition, I realized at an early age that just because I am a female and have the ability to have kids does not mean I have to have reproduce. Basically kids are not for everyone, and I am mature enough to realize that.

People with no kids, Do you want kids? People with kids, Did you originally want one?

MTC29 · Answer

I never wanted children. I can't handle the idea of raising a child from infant to adult.

My SO has two grown children ages 25 (son) and 20 (daughter). The son is a civil engineer (my profession), and the daughter is a huge F1 fan- even if she does like Lewis Hamilton.

Both of those children are amazing. I like spending time with them.

TheUniqueOne96 · Answer

Nope.

About 10 years or so years ago, I did, because I never really thought about it and thought it was just the normal thing to do.

For the last few years at least when I think about it, I don't want them.

The idea of raising them just doesn't sit well with me, plus I doubt they'd want to be brought into this world, I mean I didn't, so I'd rather they don't suffer either.

usernamr · Answer

Personally for me I don't want kids I have every intention when I get older to have my tubes tied. But even though I am a adult they said that I should wait till I'm older and all that speel. I don't want kids because Personally it ties you down with so much stuff and I honestly prefer to have a stable job and travel places to places because I like the idea of adventures without feeling in my eyes I'm ruining my life by have a kid I never wanted nor asked for. That's just my opinion I know everyone says "you'll grow out of it" but honestly I would rather not have kids at all. Like it's never appealed to me.

Sour-rose · Answer

Nah, don't need them little wallet suckers. I hear kids cry, whine, throw tantrums, and won't stfu in the bathroom every week. that's enough reason to not have them. Well not through sex, adopting a 9 year old or older sounds much better. If my girl wants one.

LaFemmeFatale_1 · Answer

I want someday, maybe 3 or 4 one, however I am really scared of giving birth, so I think the first two I can give birth myself but maybe the other two can be born with the help of surrogate. I don’t want my body to change dramatically.

midnightmoon05 · Answer

I have two.
I didn’t care if I have or not have when single or even after married.
when the time came… we tried and it worked…then my mom said have another one… and it worked.. so here they are… two beautiful smart kids.

HopefulGuy94 · Answer

Sure , I want. Small hands , sweet nose , smiling cutie cheeks , soft and innocent heart melting face... I hope I will have daughters in the future wishes from God <3

menina · Answer

I'm not sure if I want to have kids. I have a lot of things to take into consideration before thinking of bringing another human being into this crazy world.

Crepe_tart · Answer

I'm not really sure. I used to think I wanted at least 2 children but now with the pandemic, life isn't cheap, climate change, etc. I don't want to give my children a bad life

Celeste951 · Answer

I don't want to have kids through a pregnancy. If I'm able to adopt, then that's fine by me but being pregnant sounds terrifying and I don't want to go through that pain.

Lucy68 · Answer

I would LOVE to have kids someday preferably 2 maybe 4. I've always wanted a big family and can't wait to become a mommy someday ☺️😊

Avicenna · Answer

I have four kids. The first was unplanned. I didn't expect to have any because my then-wife didn't want them and our relationship wasn't where I would have wanted it to be to have kids together.

MCheetah · Answer

No. My genetics are horrendous and f*cked up and it'd be a crime against humanity for me to ever reproduce. Not that I'll ever have a partner, anyway.

exitseven · Answer

I have 3 kids. I did not NOT want kids. I really did not want them two weeks after we got married. Now that they are all grown up I am glad I had them.

SynthKobra · Answer

I did want kids but I am afraid. Afraid of the world I am bringing them into and even more so if I will be resilient enough to be a good father throughout their lives, when it matters most. I guess this is why it’s important to find a good wife 😭

RobT312 · Answer

Yeah I want kids. My older brother does and I like being an uncle. When I get married this yr. we will probably start having kids soon after

Fromdusktilldawn · Answer

No  -I want my freetime -too much pressure/hussle -I want to have my money for myself -dont want someone inherit my genetics & character -the world is overpopulated

Kkstarzz96 · Answer

I would like one. too many people see the mom ìn me. its probably something I'd feel good about. but until then, I'm still growing up myself.

Agape93 · Answer

Nope, never wanted them and never will thankfully. Nothing appealing about it.

Eroache69 · Answer

Having a child/becoming pregnant is probably my biggest fear, so no, I don't want children lol.

HighValue · Answer

I have always wanted kids of my own since I was high school age. I still want some. 3 would be ideal, but I would be okay with up to 5.

Smashingdoozy · Answer

Yeah eventually. But I'll either be doing IVF surrogacy or adoption

Nads111 · Answer

Nope. A kid just doesn't fit in the life that I imagined for myself.

Confidentandchill · Answer

I have kids and honestly it was the best choice I ever made in life. I have since had a vasectomy and will not be having any more :)

007kingifrit · Answer

yes i want kids. i'm starting a new job in a few months and i'll finally start looking for a wife there, right at the top of the req list is minimum 3 kids wanted

Jay3344 · Answer

With the right person I would compromise and say yes, but for the most part I think the worlds overpopulated.

MurkeyShadow · Answer

No I have myself to keep myself company.  Plus in my View having Kids is one of the EVILEST things one can do.

Jltakk · Answer

I don't want kids, but not because of an inflated ego, I just do not see myself raising a child with any efficiency whatsoever. I wouldn't be a good parent, and I'm honest enough to admit that.

Brendan24 · Answer

I don't really wanna deal with the baby phase but am willing to foster a child or adopt a child

Massageman · Answer

Yes we did. We knew what we could handle and stopped at two great daughters.

GlassTop · Answer

I have a bad feeling about raising kids in this current world.

Deathraider · Answer

Never had any nor want any. The most I’ll go is being a father to birds.

jammcm · Answer

My wife and I tried for several years but no luck. I miss having kids.

Christian65 · Answer

Not right now. Maybe when im in my late 30s or something.

moonpie89 · Answer

I've lived with kids my whole life. Don't want any of my own.

one1wild00 · Answer

I haven't had any kids yet, but I so want a number of them.

Waldoe · Answer

kids are the last thing I was thinking about as I climbed on top... just being honest

CompletelyHetero · Answer

no, all future kids are better off being in a ballsack, not existing, honestly i wish i was aborted. its cruel to have children in my opinion

Fuentes · Answer

I love my child but i was just busting a nut lol it wasn't planned at 16

Creampiekarl420 · Answer

I don’t have kids but clearly you’ve never heard the story of the little penis that could

Twalli · Answer

I don't want kids, unless my future wife already has them or we decide to adopt.

MissUnknownn · Answer

I want kids incredibly bad. Coming up on 3 years with my significant other and would like to have the discussion.

Bklynbadboy12 · Answer

I don't have any but I want 2 even though I think it will never happen

Prettygurl12 · Answer

I don't have kids. I don't particularly want them.

CountessSarah · Answer

Don't have kids, don't want kids.

Apple1996 · Answer

Yep I always wanted kids and now I have 3💙💙💙

possumpi26 · Answer

I want one, sure. Maybe even two.

jasmine_0603 · Answer

No, I don't have and I don't want kids.

AssholeNumberOne · Answer

No kids, don't want em either.

Pink2000 · Answer

No I do not want children. I never have.

JoyGirl · Answer

Yea, I want children, eventually. 🥴

TheSpaceGnome · Answer

Nope, don't have any, don't ever want any :)

loveslongnails · Answer

No kidlets for us, thank you!!

FunkyMonkee · Answer

I'd love to! I just haven't got any womb.

jahaims · Answer

I have two kids which is what I wanted.

sassyredhead · Answer

Two kids is my ideal.

CAPTAIN-OBVIOUS · Answer

I wouldn’t mind kids. I want to be a step daddy.

OddBeMe · Answer

Fck no. Sociopathic pricks. Always about them.

GatewayRealm · Answer

A crying baby is as good as Dead around me.

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