So my girlfriend wants me to meet her friends

[Equinoxe]

So yeah, my girlfriend wants me to meet her friends. What does this usually mean and why is it such a big step /or of importance to her?

I'm somewhat nervous about the situation, I know I will have to flatter and what not, just so they find me OK in their eyes.

Any advice or something that I should watch out for!?

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So I spoke to her on the phone telling her that this wasen't her friends show and that I whant to strenghten my bond with her, before I concider meeting up with her friends.


That I'm a private person with integrity.


She copulden't agree more.

[Distant]

It's not a huge step, haha. It's a normal step that boyfriends should take when becoming exclusive with a new girl. You shouldn't try to flatter them at every turn. They'll know you're being fake and it may work against your favor. Be yourself, be nice and most importantly, be respectful to your girlfriend especially so whilst in their company.

[Equinoxe]

Ok, fair enough, what does the ladys have to say?!

[WashingtonLoveWizard]

Because she wants them to analyze you and know what they think. Dude you are about to be disected by a clan of fems. You better take a shower and shave before all of this goes down and get a job too or it is game over.

[Equinoxe]

Now this is the answer I was looking for.

[zatchick]

its not a "big" step but its often important for a girl to have her friends accept her boyfriend, although most gilrs will not care if her friends "disapprove".

Dont stress and be your self, that's what they wanna see and that's what she loves.

good luck :)

[Equinoxe]

Thank you, great advice there. I get it now :P

[zatchick]

no problem, always glad to help :)

[Distant]

Looks like the ladies say the exact same thing as me >.<