So I was set up on a blind date with this girl and we went on one date last week, it went fairly well but she was quite shy, I asked her for a 2nd date and she said she wanted to invite me out with 5 -6 of her other friends being there with us, I personally feel its to soon and feel awkward about going...is she taking it more seriously or am I heading to the friend zone? I am not sure what to make of this. Id personally rather go on another few dates with her first as not entirely sure myself about her yet after only one date
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Personally I don't think you can take that invite as an indication of her taking it seriously or you headed to the friend zone...you don't have enough information. IMO I think it is totally fine that you don't really want to go out with her + 6 of her friends that you don't know and that (presumably) all know each other. She should understand that if she is shy. I would say I'd like to see you again, but maybe wait a bit to hang out with all of your friends too.
One other thing is it could be a scheduling thing. You happened to ask when she already had plans and she is trying to do both.
Either way, if you don't want to...don't.0