My best friend and I haven’t met up all summer because she says she’s “been so busy”?

[Anonymous]

Do you think “busy” is always simply an excuse? I’ve always believed that we will make time for who we want to see, regardless of how busy we are. She’s met up with other people all summer but not me, so clearly isn’t too busy for them?

[User2324]

go ahead & cut her off. i went through this already and they’re gonna keep making excuses! those same excuses turned into me not seeing my “best friend” for 4 years while she made all kinds of time for everyone else. they do everything but tell how they really feel.. trust me. save yourself the trouble and find a real friend! 💕

[Asker]

Thank you. It really hurts Ngl because we’ve been besties for many years. I’m sorry you went through this too, sending hugs :( x

[Asker]

It hurts to see her on social media just ignoring me, should I unfollow her or would that be petty and immature?

[User2324]

not immature at all! & thank you ❤️ i just feel like as a friend, a person shouldn’t have to practically beg for your time! clearly they don’t value you like the others so i just think you should give yourself some peace & let it go. i know it hurts but you get tired of being left out!

[Asker]

Thanks girl! I wish you all the best! It’s also hurtful because I wish they’d respect what we had at one point enough to just let me know instead of ghosting. It kinda sucks because you’re left wondering what you’ve done. And feels like you’re not even worth an explanation. And very true thank you! ☺️☺️

[Anonymous]

Yes it's an excuse.