Should we bring back this tradition so fathers can also experience the pain of childbirth?

[Anonymous]

I say we bring this back. Even tho it would only be a little bit painful compared to what labor/birth is actually like so there might need to be something added for a guy to get the full pain experience of child birth.

Yess bring it back fathers should experience the pain too

Nah don't bring it back fathers don't need to experience the pain

Updates

+1 y

I'm not trying to do this to my husband. I'm just saying it should be a option for other women if they want and their baby daddy agrees. Most of y'all know I'm into orgasmic births so I view birth a totally different way then most women who view it in only a painful way.

[TCredo]

lol ouch... I vaguely remember an old "tradition" (maybe Irish?) when the father would carry rocks around - adding more as the pregnancy unfolds. I'd be up for that type of "tradition" way more than something tied around my balls lol :)

[Asker]

That sounds like a good tradition for the pregnancy part but doesn't get the birth part involved at all

[TCredo]

lol fair point... I'd be game for anal beads vs. scrotum pulling but then again I'm into that sort of stuff ha! :)

[Asker]

Haha gotta pack those anal beads in the hospital bag next time 😂

[TCredo]

lol yes and get one that has different sizes in the chain - so the first pull would be the smallest bead... then next biggest... all the way to the birth when the biggest bead is yanked out :)

[WhiteBoyChill]

Its only fair. I’d feel kinda bad just watching

[Asker]

Yeah for sure it's hard for the guy to sit there and watch the woman be in pain for so long

[WhiteBoyChill]

Kick the shit out of my ballsack. Whatever makes it more fair

[Asker]

Haha I'm sure your future girl will be to nice to do that to you 😆

[WhiteBoyChill]

Yeah I guess in this scenario I’d ask some unrelated woman to pull the strings.

[DizzyDesii]

Omg this is awful

can't we just hook him to one of those contractions machines lmao? Your idea is brutal

[Asker]

Haha not my idea it's something they actually use to do a long time ago

[DizzyDesii]

I think the contractions machines work fine. They do it to guys on diff dating shows lol

[Th3ft]

See I would be more down with trying the machine so I at least know what you went through. But what you got agains the man’s balls?

[Th3ft]

😂🥺😜

[Asker]

@Th3ft the machine isn't even comparable either. I've watched vids of guys vs girls using them and girls that have had childern don't even flinch at the strongest pain

[Th3ft]

Fuck! Well so much for that out.. lol!

[DizzyDesii]

I disagree. I know a lot of women in the fam who flinched until they had drugs to calm them in labor

[Asker]

Yeah some women can't take it and or if they are having labor inducing drugs that can make it more painful then what it naturally is suppose to be. My last birth I had a fouley blub in my cervix to force labor and it was deadly painful so had to take the epidural ☠️

[Aiko_E_Lara]

"I've watched vids of guys vs girls using them and girls that have had childern don't even flinch at the strongest pain" Then how come there was also a video about letting girls try balls hit pain and they didn't also last? So you see, you can't really guarantee if those simulators feel like the real thing

[CrazyGirl2]

No! Especially since stretching some guys balls clearly may hurt, but it isn't going to feel like childbirth… Why not burn his feet, or put him on the rack if you are just going to make him feel irrelevant agony? I say this because if there were a modern technology that would non-invasively allow the father to experience the pain of childbirth, and go through it together with his wife? I don’t think you need to MAKE men do it, I think you’ll find real men, the type who stick around to raise their children, would love to do it, and go through it together as a couple.. I think it would be incredibly bonding for the couple!

[Lionman95]

What's the point in bringing something back you don't know the consequences of? I don't see much good in it because besides having a lot of eunuchs in the country that are probably not motivated to do anything for the woman and the child.

Plus chances are that many of them are depressed easily so what's the point?

A method like that would easily decrease America's armed forces because none of those guys would probably seen suitable or be motivated to go to war for anything if that's what you have in mind go for it.

[trumpets310]

That's one way to implement a one- child policy lol, if a woman is in a ton of pain and yanking on a guys nuts every time it hurts, I doubt that couple is having any more children

[Asker]

Well that one in the pic is having 3 babies so I'm sure she's done

[trumpets310]

Fair enough lol but I think twins or triplets are the only way that guy is having more than one kid after she squeezes his "twins" for a few hours. Not for me lol but hey I'm not stopping anyone else from trying

[Friendlybro79]

How do you know what having something tied to your scrotum and pulled on feels like? Since you said it clearly isn't as painful as childbirth. I'm not saying it is because I don't know what childbirth feels like and I'm sure it's absolutely ridiculously painful.

Also this seems sick to suggest this as an option. For a couple willingly trying to get pregnant a woman should understand what it entails. I don't envy the pain or think it's fair, but inflicting pain like that on a man just O he can feel pain too is sick. First off you could possibly do irreparable damage and you'll never know exactly if he feels the same level of pain because it's too difficult to measure.

[Asker]

My husband has told me that being kicked in the balls isn't even comparable to what he seen when I was in labor so just gauging it off that obviously genders can't have each other's experiences but even with birth simulators most men can't even handle the lowest pain on them so there's that too lol like I said I wouldn't do this but should be a option especially for some men who are trying to run out on fatherhood or the prolifer men really deserve this. A normal good dad doesn't deserve that pain at all

[Friendlybro79]

I do not think this should be an option and you have added for people trying to run out on fatherhood now which wasn't in the original question I don't think. You technically can't even torture a terrorist with this kind of treatment. As bad as running out on fatherhood is, if you think this should be a thing, you're lacking humanity

[Friendlybro79]

And just because a woman may want their man to go through this isn't justified in doing so. If she willingly had the father's baby and she feels like this she's not fit to be a parent.

[Asker]

Anything should be a thing If both people agree. I don't see why thats a issues. Some couples do this sort of thing for pleasure like cbt so for them it would literally be thrilling to do this while their wife was having a baby

[Shamalien]

Torture is bad. The people that want to be tortured should get the help they need instead of being enabled. Our society is fucked

[Asker]

@Shamalien not really pain and pleasure go together so it makes sense why someone might be into torture

[Friendlybro79]

Anything? What if they're both for cutting off his testicle with a rusty knife because they're both into pain? Also you're changing the original intent of your question into now what if the guy is into it? Ok I think I've made my point and you think this ridiculousness is great.

[Asker]

I still see nothing wrong with two willing people cutting off balls like not my thing but I don't kink shame anyone. I'm not changing my point of the question like this is just a random question and I'm not actually wanting to have pain management like this. Like I'm my update I told y'all I'm only into orgasmic birth and not other types

[Friendlybro79]

With a rusty knife I said. Lol. Whatever you are entitled your opinion.

[Th3ft]

See I’m scared enough of the hand crushing and zilla-mommy to stay away from making a girl pregnant…

[Asker]

Ah but getting a girl pregnant is fun. You should try it 😆

[Th3ft]

😂😂😂

[Th3ft]

Wait so would it mess with things down there? Like I don’t think I would be okay with it if she got done giving me a baby and I no longer had junk to mess her sexy little body up after the kid popped out…

[Asker]

You'd still have everything. Just need some healing

[Th3ft]

Oh okay then! I’m down for it if she is wanting to be a little more kinky with her birth…

[Lucy68]

I think me possibly crushing his hand and screaming my head off and unfortunately in his face will be enough😅

[Asker]

Ah see I didn't do any screaming or hand crushing. I did do the comb trick and stabbed myself in my own hands with it to help with the pain

[affectioncrave]

Causing such pain on my lover just because I am hurting would make me feel bad and heartbroken...

[KelleyNice]

That is nonsense. Men are not designed to give birth. I don't even know if men experience pain the same way women experience pain. Regardless, women have evolved to desire children more than they feel childbirth. If that means women have evolved to feel less pain from the trauma of childbirth or to partly turn the pain off, I really don't know.

[HighValue]

Then could we also shoot millions of women to death and blow their body parts off so they can feel what it was like for men defending them, society, etc. too?

Seriously, millions of women need to get willingly shot to death defending their homes in order for them to really claim any ability to deserve equality of treatment.

[Asker]

There are women in the military that do experience that and also on the flip side lots of non military men that don't experience that so not really a thing anymore that only men go to war

[HighValue]

Not all women give birth either.
Still we do need millions of women shot to death and have their limbs blown off. They really do need to contribute like men have.

[HighValue]

We still need women spending much more time in prison too for all the lighter sentences they have gotten for the same crimes.
Plus all the women that had sex with a man under the influence of alcohol (legally he can't give consent) need to be in prison for rape.
Where is the equality?

[Asker]

I don't believe in equality so that's something you'd have to take up with a feminist

[JDavid25]

That would be worse pain than the pregnancy.. The balls are where life is stored, and just poking them is painful.. A good kick in the balls is above 9.000 del (units) of pain which is similar to giving birth to 160 kids and breaking up to 3,200 bones at a time. Imagine getting them pulled.. A lot of men probably died or was out of commission for a long time doing that.. That should not be an option unless those wives want infertile men.

[Brammer54]

A few years ago I saw a video of a device being featured in Japan which was able to make males experience the pain that the females underwent during childbirth. Based on one of the participant's reaction, needless to say it was unbelievably painful.

[MountAverage]

All male "pro-life" assholes should be forced to experience this.

[Asker]

I had the same thought for the prolifers 😂

[AviatorTom]

My SO and I are too old for childbirth. She might like doing this to me anyway, as a hobby, or whenever she gets mad at me. 😲

[EaterPeter]

There should be some tradition. Not this one. Where exactly women feel pain when give birth? Is it possible to be replicated in the males?

[Asker]

Labor is from the uterus contracting so it's impossible to do the same to men. Maybe punching in the stomach but still not the same since it's internal pain

[EaterPeter]

I read a while ago about a tribe. Where male would lay down next to partner in labor and try to match intensity of screaming. If she screams in pain. He has to scream equally. 😱 probablt to get the idea of magnitude of pain.

[EaterPeter]

Male has no women like uterus, right?

[EaterPeter]

You mean baby carry bag 🎒?

[EaterPeter]

pouch 👝

[Asker]

That's definitely interesting but not similar since he's not experiencing the pain just the walking through the motions

[EaterPeter]

probably *

[EaterPeter]

There should be contraption directly connected to male and female where he can feel what she feels some how rather than her tugging his testies 🙂

[EaterPeter]

hats off to the tribe

[EaterPeter]

They have a make shift contraption

[EaterPeter]

I wonder women are any happier in that tribe 🤔

[EaterPeter]

Thanks for like!

[VaasMontenegro]

Maybe we should draft all women to ukraine since there equal to men anyway and let them expirience what war for men was like?🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🦎🦎🦎🦎🦎

[Asker]

For sure

[VaasMontenegro]

Ok chameleon

[Rangers]

I already experienced something exponentially worse than childbirth in my severe case of testicular torsion, so I'm good.

At least I can say I have no plans of ever wanting to put anyone through that pain, the fact that you even think about this tells me you're quite sadistic

[Bklynbadboy12]

See this is why we always get into it! 😄😄😄 Why would you want to bring that back your real mean lol😉😉😉

[Asker]

I'd never actually do it but if other women wanted to it seems like a great idea

[Bklynbadboy12]

Nope you know what would be a great idea

[Asker]

What

[Bklynbadboy12]

A gag party do you ever wonder what the people you chat with everyday really look like

[Asker]

Oh yeah all the time lol I imagine most people here aren't that cute tho lol

[Bklynbadboy12]

I'm gonna in box you

[Friendlybro79]

What if other people wanted to bring back slavery should we do that too? I'm having a tough time with this one. I usually like your posts/questions.

[Asker]

@Friendlybro79 slavery is still a thing if you didn't know

[Friendlybro79]

You know what I'm trying to say and you're being ridiculous just to be ridiculous. Lol. Got ya. Have a good one.

[Aiko_E_Lara]

First of all, how would they exactly know if that's what it really feels like? But regardless if it's accurate or not, if you really want that tradition then lets also abolish the tradition where fathers have to pay for child support and give them equal rights to mothers just to be fair.

[Aiko_E_Lara]

Girls really like to bring up the argument saying guys don't know the pain of child's birth while they don't also know the pain balls being hit despite how much a guy can suffer or even die from it. What more if they're pulled?

[Asker]

I think it should be a choice between a couple if they want to do this. Not something I'd personally do. But being hit in the balls isn't even comparable to childbirth like obviously nobody can experience both but most guys can't even handle a fake birth simulator so I think y'all just weak about pain or something lol

[Aiko_E_Lara]

Im not saying it is comparable to child's birth because I myself have never tried child's birth just like you have never tried being kicked in the balls. If you think that should be a choice then good but I'm still talking about how unfair it would be if the man is still paying for child support while trying that out. My comment is for those psychopath girls who would want that. If they really wanna inflict pain to their husbands because they think it's unfair they never experience it then no one's forcing them to have children or at least biological children.

Just like my first question, what makes you also sure that the child's birth simulator is also accurate? Answers like "because a mom tried and she said so" is just an anecdote really and anecdotes don't prove anything unless they truly swapped bodies with a pregnant woman if possible. And even if those simulators are accurate, then how come girls trying balls kick simulator also couldn't handle it? So what does that make them?

[Aiko_E_Lara]

Also it's nice of you to think there should be an option for women to do that when men, even if they want to agree to let women experience men side of the story, there is nothing they can do to let it happen because they cannot change the law. Even if the woman agrees that he won't pay for child support after that, the law begs to differ.

[Asker]

They should have to pay if they don't want to be a active part of the child's life but If they are in the picture I don't see the point if they have other agreements

[Aiko_E_Lara]

Who are you referring to as "they"?

[Guardian45]

As admirable as that is, I could NOT survive the pain of childbirth!😁😅😂🤣👍

[Guardian45]

But I STILL love you, MsA!

[Asker]

Haha yeah don't think most men could handle child birth they don't have the strength

[Guardian45]

You ARE CORRECT, Apple of My Eye!😏

[Juxtapose]

I don't need to understand her pain, she would be the one to make that choice. I'm certainly not pushing for kids!

[KrakenAttackin]

Sure, just as soon as women do an equal share of dangerous and dirty jobs.

[whatever932]

I would like to experience that pain but men are not strong in this area please feel free to release me when I can't take it anymore

[Waldoe]

unessesary pain is cruel, why would you want to cause pain to someone you Love? I would rather take Her pain away...

[Likes2drive]

I always said if men had babies there wouldn’t be any or very few, we still get the pain financially for years though

[JDBSLAOQ]

why put someone through pain for no reason? if you hate your childs father that much you shouldn't be having kids together

[saffoler]

Are we sure that is the father depicted and not a criminal? Seems like that would lead to permanent damage and limit fathers to one kid a piece.

[Asker]

That's prob the point for back then

[saffoler]

I don't think so; you need at least two kids per family today to support a society. Back then it was even higher. They wouldn't have lasted as a society if they did that to fathers.

[TadCurious]

Lol. Apple what if dads simply acknowledged what mothers experience giving birth? Pulling a rope tied around the dad's balls just seems unnecessary.

[Asker]

For some dads just being there seeing it isn't enough for them to understand

[SaoirseS]

No. There’s no reason to share one’s pain.

[Anonymous]

I don't know a single man who has enjoyed seeing his wife/girlfriend experiencing that amount of pain - why would you want to see someone you love in pain? It wouldn't be fair to inflict pain on us just because our bodies work differently.

[Texaskid1]

What is an orgasmic birth?

[Asker]

If your girl wanted a orgasmic birth/labor would you be supportive and willing to help? ↗

Orgasming during labor and birth to help ease the pain. That's my question from awhile ago about it

[crmoore]

Sounds like an unnecessary way to accidently sterilize your husband.

[Asker]

Sounds like a good deal for the guys that get snipped after their wives are done having kids

[annabananna]

Lol no I want the man to feel the best so he can best help out with the baby while I’m in pain.

[exitseven]

I am not sure what I am looking at but I vote NO.

[TrueConfection]

I've experienced worse pain.

[dolemite89]

isn’t having to pay for the little bastards for a lifetime punishment enough? 🤣

[Nades]

Yea why isn’t that fixed if abortions are allowed now?

[Asker]

Mom's have to care for the child for a lifetime yet we don't complain about it. Men that get by just paying have it easy

[Friendlybro79]

You sure seem to know how every man treats their child's mom and how they interact with raising the children. Some men are as you describe and it just seems like you have a borderline bias against men in general when you speak like this. I'm pro women all day every day but generalizing men the way you do is inaccurate. Your personal observations are not enough to make general statements about billions of people.

[Asker]

@Friendlybro79 I'm basically a men's activist in my real life so you prob just don't know me based on this one post

[dolemite89]

women are the ones that choose to have kids though even when men don’t want them, uve never heard a girl say that he’s having a baby against my will. 🤣

[Asker]

Men manipulate women into having babies all the time. It mostly goes unnoticed tho cuz women don't bring it up

[dolemite89]

oh stop that is vastly less common than women doing, what is even to be gained from a man doing that? more debt?

[Asker]

There are men out there that love having kids believe it or not 😂

[dolemite89]

i’m sure there are but most men are just dealing with accidents and try to put a good face on a bad situation 🤣

[Nades]

Fuck all that I’d rather not get pegged just to raise a child. Moms can have an abortion soooo…. They don’t have to care. What I don’t understand is why a fuck ton of people are ok with forced injections for COVID and not ok with that same higher power having control of abortions

[Friendlybro79]

@Nades omg no one is forced. Forced means being held down lol.

[TallAnon]

If you and your husband want to do this, go right ahead. Strange kink, but ok.

[Asker]

Nah I'm more into orgasmic births

[Anonymous]

The balls are sensitive for a reason - they’re easily damaged.

[JohnK123]

What’s the tradition?

[Asker]

In the pic

[convo_king89]

Balls are not ment to be pulled on. Women have that second hole and wide hips for a reason.

[Charliefretz329]

Sure! I’m in lol! What about the penis Though?

[Asker]

Not sure some of the history is lost so maybe the penis was pulled to

[Charliefretz329]

I’d sure hope so!!!

[Charliefretz329]

And it sounds orgasmic to me! Lol

[Asker]

Prob the only guy who thinks this is orgasmic 😂😂

[Charliefretz329]

I’m not the only one but I know I’m rare LOL! I like how the girl could decide whether we were going to have any more babies during childbirth

[Asker]

Would your wife pull on yours during birth or nah?

[Charliefretz329]

She definitely wouldn’t be interested in pleasing me she knows when I like sex would be the farthest thing from her mind although I gladly hand her some scissors or a knife

[Charliefretz329]

What i like

[Shamalien]

Fucking psychopaths.

[Asker]

Probably lol not sure I could do that to since I don't like causing pain to other people. Some women do tho especially during labor

[Guy__]

Every time a man goes into a fight to protect his family, the woman will get inside a working washing machine to feel the pain?

[Asker]

@Guy__ my washing machine is pretty big. Might be like being in a luxurious bath tub 🛀

[Shamalien]

The vagina is designed to deliver a baby, as painful as it is. Testicles are not designed to be pulled on like that…it could render the man infertile or leave him in extreme pain that can only be fixed by dangerous surgeries

[Asker]

33% of women get c sections. 9/10 women tear during a vaginal birth like no just no like vaginas are made to give birth but our bodies have evolved to make it a more difficult process then what it use be. That's why most animals don't experience labor pains and vicious births like humans do. It's a shitty by product of our evolution. Men obviously could get hurt by that but prob far less then women having problems during birth

[Shamalien]

There’s one big difference though, women have to go through that. Men don’t. Why needlessly bring suffering into this world

[Asker]

Women don't have to be in pain there are ways around this but people don't like to hear it cuz our society has conditioned us to think there is only one way to give birth and thats the painful way. I wouldn't say that would be pointless pain if a women wanted to use it as pain management like I said I wouldn't but others have their different ways

[Guy__]

You just reminded me of the recent video I shared on G@G, of course I hate sharing single videos because it never makes sense without seeing the big picture. However this at the timestamp of 4455 second, there will be a short list of reasons why humans did not naturally evolve to where we are. Very relevant to childbirth pain.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7YS_9kYj3Fw&t=4455

[Asker]

@Guy__ I'm not too sure if the vid really explains anything about birth and evolution but okay 👌

[Guy__]

It's more like humans were genetically engineered by the ancients, not evolved naturally. And they had the technology, similar to how pyramids cannot be replicated to this day.

[Shamalien]

@Guy__ holy fuck lol so few people know this. This is the truth of why human reproduction is so dicey

[Guy__]

Interestingly you said "fucking psychopaths", and throughout the presentation that I shared, he talked a lot about two forms of psychopathy.
I also recalled how I went at this all logically to a psychology teacher, and the teacher just ended up saying they don't wanna hear anything anymore, it's not part of the curriculum.

That's why humans are ignorant.

Also Mark Passio who made this presentation, is an ex satanist, occultist, and 33rd degree mason, who claimed that in his organization it was a sin to be brainwashed, meanwhile they really focus hard on keeping the masses dumbed down.
Now I don't wanna debate this as if I'm an occultist myself or have any degrees, but it's obviously very real. Read about some other high level esotericists here www.newdawnmagazine.com/.../rudolf-steiner-secret-societies-the-ahrimanic-deception
Or a gov official here
www.dailymail.co.uk/.../...ati-controls-world.html

This is just for any "anti-consipracy theory" dummies that may cringe when reading about secret societies.

[Shamalien]

@Guy__ i’m well familiar with his work and who he is, I’ve heard every episode

[bigpauly]

Umm I’ll just take your word for it 👀

[Asker]

Wouldn't want the experience? Lol

[bigpauly]

Lol no I’m good

[purplepoppy]

I'll guarantee he tied it to the servant

[Chazmatazz269]

Ell oh ell! Of course not.

[Jouth]

That sounds like purposeless pain.

I'll pass lol

[Asker]

It would be helpful so the man can understand the pain too

[Jouth]

Why does he need to understand it?

[Anonymous]

He'll feel the pain for as long as he has to pay for everything.

[Asker]

That's not pain lol they made a family and have to support it

[Opinion Owner]

I'm being facetious. I guess I get defensive when someone wants to touch my balls with anything but gentle fingertips or tongue.

[Asker]

I'd be defensive about that too

[Anonymous]

People on Internet are f up - now I understood why they say that.

[Asker]

Haha whats fucked up about this?

[Yellovv]

How is that possible, what you mean exackly?

[Asker]

Look at the pic lol

[abinavzene022]

This is not a reality, just a concept of childbirth among the Huichol tribe of Mexico.

[KatherineJ]

That’s kind of harsh!

[Tstrbrainer]

That's one way to encourage us men to use condoms

[Anonymous]

This won't happen and if you don't like painful childbirth, don't get pregnant, simple.

[Asker]

I love giving birth actually lol

[Opinion Owner]

Then why do you want the father to be in pain?

[Asker]

I don't I prefer orgasmic births instead. I'm saying bring this back as a option for a couple if they both agree

[Opinion Owner]

Ok no one is going to agree to this, have fun giving birth, lol

[Asker]

I've done it 3 times already😛

[Asker]

Some might agree especially guys that like that stuff as a fetish

[Opinion Owner]

Yes there are sado masochists out there, but it has nothing to do with childbirth.

[Staximus]

This shit is hilarious

[Surely]

Might be a natural birth control!!!

[OddBeMe]

Sure. Abortion would be legalized as well.

[Fuentes]

Ohhh hello naaaah lol

[Fuentes]

Hell**

[BLP11520]

Primitive and backwards

[jshm2]

That's facetious nonsense, kiddo.

[Abdulwahh]

No god never made this for men he it women