Is it normal and okay for my mom to insist that I tell her when I have any intimate contact with someone for the first time?

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Okay, so I might sound petty or crazy and obnoxious for asking this, but I want to start off by saying that my mom is a very disgusting and violent person that I've never been close with because she is abusive.

Anyways, I understand that I'm just a teenager right now and its normal for parents to be worried and curious about this kind of topic, but I am asking this because:

a.) I wouldn't do any intimate contact as an underage individual.


b.) I feel like its not okay for her to insist that I tell her about my intimate life choices if she was never there for me emotionally or physically when I was growing up.


c.) By intimate contact, I'm saying that she continuously tells me that she needs to know if I ever have sex with anyone, kiss anyone, hug anyone, e. t. c. and who exactly the person is (phone number, photo, description).

- Also, I would like to mention that she insists that I get pregnant by a male she chooses and have grandchildren for HER although I have expressed disliking of children and not wanting to be a mom since I was very young.

Is it normal and okay for my mom to insist that I tell her when I have any intimate contact with someone for the first time?
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