My fiancés parents won’t let me go round to their house?

[Anonymous]

Long story short they tried to get my fiancé to take a huge loan out of £14k in his name becauSe they blew their money. They are in their 60’s. I put a stop to it and they’ve hated me since. I’ve been nothing but lovely to them as well. As a side note, my fiancés brothers wife doesn’t get on with them either. I now see why.

All of a sudden the mother has said I can’t go round to their house because her back is bad and she feels a bit sick on her tablets. My mum was in hospital recently and bless her looked terrible but even she didn’t mind seeing my fiancé when he came to pick me up.

This is all so they can get him there alone and bad talk me. I’m totally sick of it and their behaviour and my fiancé making excuses for them. I don’t know what to do though because if I say anything they will win by causing an argument

[slatyb]

You are an adult. Your mother can want whatever. You are free to do as you please.

[Asker]

You haven’t read this

[Guy13]

It seems that they are trying to keep control of their bank. Is that your impression too? And alienating and quilting him are the strategies being used?

[Emilyis]

Perfect, then it will keep them out of your house when you are married. Great! wouldn't have it any other way but My inlaws are welcome at our house.

[Anonymous]

That's a red flag the size of Texas.

[Asker]

I know that but what do I do?

[Opinion Owner]

I guess just except the situation as it is and don't let it affect your wedding plans.