
Are you comfortable/anxious when/if people go through your phone?


I have number of opinions.
1. My S. O can as I don't have anything to hide (as long as she's OK with me doing the same) so here it's about 50/50 equal treatment.
Then again I wouldn't call anyone S. O if I don't trust, or i have doubts. So the person who is with me can do so freely.
So I'm honest and straightforward, which means I don't have an issue. There were times my girlfriend gave her phone for me to hold, and I did so and didn't feel the need to go through it. Like wise I left my phone on the table while we sat for hours and she didn't check mine. (Honestly I did feel she was testing me by giving her phone for me to hold several times) sensing maybe she thought I would try looking etc.
It's about trust man. Yes, everyone's phone is personal and you shouldn't invade privacy, but if you're sure of yourself then you don't have anything to worry if that person is your partner.
Yeah, I'm afraid they'll see all my fire memes before I can show them
nope not at all look through my phone all u want i have jack shit to hide i mite have nude pics of myself that i sent to my ex or videos of us at it but if they dont like it flick through the pics quick my lover my ex i asked to look at his phone to proove hre wasn't cheating he said no a said well why not u look through mine so u must be hiding something am not ok then whatever but i found out he was you need proof to know if its happendcif loverscare not willing to sit together nd use each others phone or look on them together thats a sign they are hiding something i dont care who looks through my phone i have nothing to hide batter in
i had someone do it before, while i get its an invasion of privacy i also have nothing to hide so in the end i really dont care
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I got a lot of p0rn on it but I locked it with a password. So even if you can access my phone, you won't be able to view the p0rn without knowing the password to it. Other than that, nothing secret on it. But I still would not feel comfortable anyone use it. It's a privacy thing.
Phones are privates things. I don't have anything to hide but everyone should feel like they have some sort of space doesn't mean I mind when they take my phone to check something if that makes them less anxious but who loves you doesn't cheat and using ur phone isn't the only way to check if someone cheats.
Very uncomfortable. Y'all about to see some sin that you should never look at, man. You don't know what I create for a certain audience. You need to look up whatever you want but stay outta my documents. You couldn't understand if your dog was able to tell you, man
Hahaha! Ummm yes. Was in the local store the other day and Natasha, who I get on well with wanted to see my photos of the garden (I am a landscaper) and I forgot I had some nude photos in there.
Was a very anxious moment lol.
my phone... is not a problem, I use it mostly for work (G@G is from desktop) and in fact people from work borrow it sometimes for work reasons, lol, there is only two or three pics in my phone and it's my cats
my PC though, others do not touch it... haha, nobody knows I'm here at G@G
Two questions…
You only have three pictures on your phone?
You let people use your phone, for work reasons, and you have OCD. This one shocks me.
@dustybiker yes lmao, and I know what you mean... it used to be three, now it's two
and yes, my smartphone is mostly a work phone... and they know better, not to mess with
life with mild OCD requires some sacrifices and negotiation, lol
.. and wet wipes. 😱
@dustybiker if you think about it... tablets at work would be a bigger screen's surface touching and all those marks across!! nope
and sharing regular desktops and keyboards is a big giant NOPE
nobody touches my PC, lol
phone is smaller, less of an issue
Yup. I remember my mind hounding me about all that stuff. As a child my mum would cook chicken and I’d follow after her wiping all the seasoning bottles off. (GaG trigger. Made me miss my mum)
@dustybiker I still wash every bottle before I have to throw it off...
There was a special on Oprah about the bottles one time. They went through a woman's kitchen (who cooked a chicken with special edible “ink” that reacted to UV light). The bottles glowed, sponge, counter and other places she “thought” was clean... It was pretty unsettling.
@dustybiker precisely why I always shut down my UV vision mode...
Smart. 😵💫
If I have given permission, then I won't be. If I haven't, I will be. But in most cases, it doesn't bother me. I grew up with the idea that mobile phones are private and you don't use someone's mobile phone without asking for permission.
I understand that when it comes to daring, women are obsessed with checking a guy's phone, but with me one is wasting their time checking my phone. You ain't going to get any useful information from my phone. Thay are only useful to me.
More OCD that they’re getting their prints/germs all over it (and i’ve had this mindset even before covid). I dont like people touching my stuff
I'm fine with people going through the one that has my sim card in it. It's squeaky clean and I only really use it for work and phone calls. The one I'm on now? I'll dunk this thing in hydrocloric acid before someone gets a hold of it.
If a Girl wants to see my Photos then she can By wanting to see my photos I Know she Knows my Dick could be in the photos and by Still wanting too see them I see that as her wanting to see pictures of my Dick
And She will come across pictures of my Dick.
Boredom
Or sending it to Girls and never Deleting the pics.
They react to the photo with a like or love ❤️
I’ve had time where I accidentally sent it to a Girl in the family.
The Girl didn’t Take it very well when I accidentally sent it to Female in the family
Girl tells me I have big Dick and That She owns my Dick
Or girl says Nice Dick then proceeds to tell me How Much she enjoyed my dick
My phone is MINE. I dont let anyone go through it. Or hold it. If I show you something on it, dont try to touch the screen or swipe. It doesn't mean I have shit to hide, it just means whats mine is mine. Its private.
Doesn't bother me unless it's a new friend that I don't know well then I'm like ehhhh stop. I've heard a hack is to zoom in on the pic so it's difficult for someone to start swiping to other pics.
Hell yeah lol.
Like;
*screaming internally* "Get off my phone!"
Phones can contain Firefox passwords. Your life, your identity, at the mercy of another's integrity (or lack thereof.). For that reason alone, I don't share my phone with just anyone.
When do people do that? I'll tell you. When they want to send an insulting message to a friend pretending to be you.
Depends on the person but yeah I do have some racy pics and clips of me on my phone.
Why would they even get an opportunity to do that. It's private and will stay so. I wouldn't unlock it for the cops either.
Angry. If you touch my phone without my permission, i will remove you from my life. I don’t give people permission to use my phone very often.
No. Only my SO would, when offered (well.. mostly 😁) and he knows all the juicy stuff, as we find it together.
I mean, if they want to see what kind of porn I've looked at, or see naked pictures between me and my girlfriend, that's on them. 🤷♂️
Depends on the person going through my phone. If it’s family, yes, but if it’s friends or my partner, no.
I'm comfortable. They will see many pics of Henners ❤ if they do so.
Henry Cavill ❤🥰
quite uncomfortable, I have many, many nude photos on there and conversations in chats that should never be seen! hahaa
This is why you buy Cloud storage, kiddo.
All the personal stuff gets locked away off device, and under a separate password.
I have nothing to hide but it still makes me anxious
Depends on who it is. I would prefer that my parents don't go through my phone because I have nudes of my girlfriend on it, but I don't mind if she does. She's seen almost all of them. I usually show her the ones I took.
Yes! So I put a pass code number on it so nobody can get into it without knowing the code.
No friend of mine had ever been so rude to stroll down without asking for permission
Yeah cause' I don't want them to find my naked dude stash
I will openly warn them that if they persist on doing that with the pictures then they are going to start seeing my dick eventually.
I wouldn't mind having a girlfriend go through my phone but not a friend or relative.
Yeah I hate that. I don’t have anything to hide but I don’t like people thinking they can now view whatever they want.
i don't keep sensitive material on my phone to do their nature, higher risk of being stolen or lost--so anything important I will keep on my computer or just temporarily on my phone
Nope there's nothing in there to be bothered about.
Being completely honest yes. I have nothing suspicious but I don't trust people.
Yeah nobody is allowed to do that lol... That's too personal
Not at all. Even this is on incognito so this doesn't show on my phone.
I really don’t care 🤷♀️, nothing to hide lol
nope, nothing there but a few pics and some websites I visit. If asked I would tell all about them, nothing to hide...
I would definetly not like it. I told a friend when gave her my phone to see her pics. Please swipe carefully.
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I have a lot of private stuff on my phone. If I show anything to anyone other than a select few, I keep hold of it.
Nope. I keep my naughty pics in a locked file. I well hand my phone over
I'm comfortable. Anyone who goes through my phone, doesn't live to tell about it.
No I don't have anything on my phone that would make someone go D:
I don't have a phone so I honestly wouldn't mind if the person asked me to use my phone I would set some ground rules first.
Anxious, because... why are they on my phone and why do they have it?
Not really, no. The real shit is on my laptop.
Not really but if they do it secretly then i would be super pissed off
Nope.. I got nothing to hide... I hope they like pictures of my car... 🤣🤣🤣
If they really want to see my dick, keep swiping.
Bro my asshole is on there.
i was about to say the same thing 😋🤣
woops lol
I am always comfortable because I have nothing to hide
Well it depends on what kind of friendship we have
no one has gone through my phone
they won’t… lol
but if anyone else does, for whatever reason, I wouldn’t fret because they would be someone I trust lol
Depends on the person lol mostly no tho
your phone is non of anyones buisness.
Who would allow that?
Idc buuuut i still dislike snoops.
Like i got nothing to hide or anything buuut i would still take that action as her not trusting me and a huge red flag for me. if she truly think im hiding something big and doesn't trust me than just break up. it ain't gonna work out if there's no trust.
Plus i would just freely show her if she just asked me so its not even necessary.
Is this a duplicate question or do you want some kind of nuance to it? 🙂
No. I don’t care.
Swipe on their own risk.
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