Is it possible to have a relationship with no fighting?

[jennifer_bloom]

My grandpa died before I was born but my dad said he only saw them argue once during their 30 year marriage. The argument was when an earthquake happened and some people lost their homes and needed a place to live, and asked my grandma for help because our family had more money and more property and my my grandpa did not want strangers in our home but my grandma did not want the men to die if they had no place to go. That was the only argument they had in their entire 30 year marriage. But my parents fight 90 times a day.

[SnowedIn]

Yes it's possible. But unlikely. We're human and conflict is part of our existence. In specific terms of a relationship, though, some tension and conflict is a good thing. It helps you learn about each other and it helps you define what's really important. It can force you to be civil when all you want to do is call the other person stupid. It can bring a couple together if handled correctly.

[RealMarek]

I’m in such a relationship. Both of us had bad relationships in the past and don’t want the drama. It is possible, but rare.

[Anastacia1989]

My boyfriend and I only have minor arguments but nothing big... it’s normal for every couple to have arguments here and there... if there’s no fighting then it means people are hiding their feelings and bottling up stuff which isn’t healthy

[BLP11520]

I don't think it is possible.