Would you consider a relationship with absolute zero arguments or disagreements to be a healthy relationship?

[The_Shadow_Dweller]

It includes absolutely no small fights on varied topics too.

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All those people in a relationship. What do you feel after an argument? Lets says the argument js for something to be purchased for the house, would you feel-good that he/she is countering your opinions calling out the flaws inadvertently?-irritated by her/his countering as you expect them to just trust you on this task?-any other reaction you would have? Would you think that your partner cares about you or would you find them to be irritating?

[madgoat]

A relationship without any friction or argument is one where you probably cannot express yourself fully and freely.

It may also mean you are not calling one another out on their ill conceived bs.

This is unlikely to be healthy and may lead to unexpressed division, frustration and resentment.

[IAteTwoFullHams]

Sure, but I wouldn't consider it a very close one.

That's totally possible for, like, two happy professionals with a standing Saturday night date.

It is simply impossible for a couple raising three kids.

[LilyoftheLake]

I would say the relationship probably hasn't matured if there is no disagreement. Unless the two of you are IDENTICAL, there will be differences that need to be settled. If you haven't reached that point, it means you're still hiding parts of yourselves from each other.

[BrookeAZ90]

Seems like an indication of utter indifference. No one's really emotional invested enough to care. Just settling and complacency.

[TheSpaceGnome]

Or similarity (ie the perfect relationship)

[Apple1996]

Doesn't seem healthy. The couple would both have to not give a care about anything to not fight

[OlderAndWiser]

Conflict is inevitable unless one person is so afraid of conflict that they always yield to their partner. . . and that is NOT healthy!

[DizzyDesii]

Hard to believe. The picture perfect shit is a bit scary. Like damn am i dating a robot? Guys were prob right when they said a female will eventually get bored and cause drama. I dont need a big fight and I dont need it daily but can we at least argue over what we’re having for dinner once a week 😂

[Wubs3000]

Do you guys like actually want to argue (not seriously and a small argument) over small shit like what to eat or what to do? Should we be less accommodating and more firm.

[EaterPeter]

Or a civil debate like Trump and Biden 🙃

[DizzyDesii]

idgaf about politics. If he days the wrong thing in regards to those idiots then that could lead to an actual breakup. The topic is too sensitive. But I actually care about whats for dinner and whether or not I’m gonna be starving hungry for the night

[EaterPeter]

Not with me around. I will get you a meal 😋

[TheSpaceGnome]

Yes, thats how relationships are supposed to be, not because you ignore differences or act like some "yes robot", but because the other person just naturally agrees with you on anything important or fun. Such similarities are how you are supposed to become emotionally attached in the first place.

[Smashingdoozy]

Depends. Have you just not disagreed on something yet or have you disagreed but not voiced your feelings.

Ignoring disagreements because you don't want a fight isn't healthy. Those feelings get bottled up and come out in other ways.

[NathanDavis]

that is not a relationship...

that is two people that just met each other... lol

[Phoenix98]

It’s actually healthy to have an occasional fight with your partner.

And you will have the occasional fight, disagreement or butting of heads even in the most perfect relationship these things will still happen.

[menina]

No. In a relationship like that someone is faking or someone is being oppressed. It's not normal.

[Andres77]

If it’s because they are in such agreement about everything, yes. That would be lovely.

if it’s because one partner dominates the other…then no

[Sarahplus2]

It could happen. Over time you will argue about something.

[TacosRAwesome]

Not really. It kinda feels that one of the parties is afraid to express their opinion and just goes with whatever the other one says.

[Still-alive]

Not necessarily i just feel its very unlikely you'll have a relationship without them. Its pretty much gonna happen at times

[fonduegirl]

Red flag

[EaterPeter]

Definitely not