My parents and family is over strict how to deal w this?

[Anonymous]

It sucks even they don't allows me to go to my terrace w my phone they don't like it when I use my earphones outside my home and i don't do anything wrong for me their reputation and trust is everything but they never try to understand this... i use my phone so they think I'm chatting w any guy and barely chat w people i mean why? Day by day it's getting difficult for me to bearing this I'm just 22 and they are searching for a guy to get married and i don't wanna get married now what should I do?

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+1 y

Exactly they treat my a kid but also they're searching for a guy for my wedding like I'm not adult enough to go outside alone but adult enough to get married... I've never received freedom in my life vroo for this life feels like prison

[Lucifer_666]

That’s weird that they don’t treat you like an adult. You should talk to them and ask why don’t they treat like you like an adult.

[Asker]

Exactly they treat my a kid but also they're searching for a guy for my wedding like I'm not adult enough to go outside alone but adult enough to get married... I've never received freedom in my life vroo for this life feels like prison

[Lucifer_666]

You should definitely talk to them and tell them that you’re able to make decisions by yourself.

[Asker]

They won't listen to me even though I sacrifice my dream for them and now I'm living like a dead soul 👍🏻 of course they love me so much every day they ask me what menu should I cook today my mom she kissed me 50 times a day I still sleep w holding my father they given me the freedom of money even in anger when I broke anything they don't say anything to me but still they don't give me freedom 😊😊 which I crave for the most

[Lucifer_666]

Can you move out?

[Asker]

No w/o their permission i can't 🥲 do anything

[DavidRaul]

You should move to your own place. This marriage is gonna ruin everything. Chase yoir dreams

[DavidRaul]

*your

[Wise4myage]

Why don't you focus on moving out for now?

[Asker]

Lollllllllll they don't allows me to go anyway alone 👍🏻😒

[Wise4myage]

Then you need to make an escape plan.

[Asker]

I don't know man it sucks basically i live in a prison... I've no freedom at all