Do people who have kids in their 20s really miss out on their youth? (Page 2)

[Andres77]

It’s a trade off.

enjoy the freedom of youth before kids or if you still have a life after paying for college enjoy your freedom after they leave home

[alance99]

I think it varies from person to person for people drinking, partying, sleeping around is more important while some people feel that they have no intrest in all this and they settle down in life early and both are correct in their different ways

[Brittanyroseee]

It’s literally nobodys buisness what people do with their life. Not everyone must have kids

[alance99]

I totally agree with you, thats why i said a person having kids at young age and a person not having kids both are right and we are nobody to question their choices

[Brittanyroseee]

Exactly! These people are judgmental! Im glad i have no crotch demons!

[alance99]

People will never be happy no matter what you do in life so best way to deal with it is to just ignore them and do what makes you happy in life so that you dont have regrets

[Brittanyroseee]

@alance99 it’s literally nuts how people say that the only way to enjoy life is to have kids. Bro, no. Life is not about marriage and children

[alance99]

Children and marriage are just a part life and definitly not the only source of enjoyment and a person can be very happy and content in life even without marriage and children

[Brittanyroseee]

Exactly!!!

[Brittanyroseee]

@alance99 i also hate when women say “i have kids and i have freedom and i can do what i want” um, not all women have that privilege with kids… that makes me so mad. There are so many moms that struggle with children

[alance99]

I think they try to stay happy in the situation they are in

[Brittanyroseee]

@alance99 i think they are jealous because i can use my money on myself meanwhile all their shitty paychecks goes towards their crotch demons💀

[alance99]

If she is earning decent money and the husband is also equally supporting then its their choice

[Brittanyroseee]

@alance99 exactly and not all couples or women are financially stable to raise a kid

[ArrowheadSW]

If you are the type who likes raising kids, then you aren't really missing out on anything.

[rachel776]

i think so, but if it makes them happy then it's their choice

[gcd84]

It's better to miss out on a bit of overrated freedom than to miss out on grandchildren.

[Anonymous]

The ones that say you're missing out on your youth are going to be lonely bitter old women who will be jealous of your family.. They will be cat ladies.

[Asker]

Yes they jealous and lol to the cat lady thing. I'm trying to get a cat whenever I stop being pregnant

[Opinion Owner]

My wife and I LOVE our cats, we have 2.

[Asker]

Awhh I'm jealous. I want a cat so bad but they're bad to be around when pregnant 😥

[Opinion Owner]

That's actually a myth, unless you mean the tripping over them part.

[Asker]

It's not a myth. Cleaning their poop is toxic to pregnant women

[Opinion Owner]

Oh that part. That's only if the cat has parasites called toxoplasmosis. I've had cats since I my self was a baby. Multiple pregnant women in my family have had cats without issue. It's only an issue when the cat is sick and has the parasite mentioned above.

[Asker]

Not from what my docs have told me. Cats always have it in their poop. It can cause miscarriages and issues in the baby so not worth risking it

[Opinion Owner]

Huh did not know that. Though we don't actually clean up our cats poop. We have a litter robot. It basically cleans its self.

[poneglyphs]

I don't have kids at all and feel like I'm not doing anything with my life 🙃🙃

[abitcurious2022]

It depends on if you're the type who like to study, party, hang out with friends, travel a lot, etc. Kids are a responsibility.

[LimitedBenefits101]

Women that have kids at 30 and over are SELFISH.

[Asker]

I agree a little bit. I think it depends on the family but like in mine my parents had my 6 siblings in their 20s and had me in their 30s. My siblings definitely got to live a more adventurous life and got my parents better years

[Christoff92]

Depending how they keep themselves and with society 🙂

[Sixgunsound]

Not really, no. If anything you extend it.

[Agape93]

Nope. You're just enjoying it how you want.

[RamyRahhal]

Sadly Yes in most cases... Cos thier careness focused to their children.

[pizzalovershouse]

Depends on how the girl feels

[Thotkiana]

Ur not missing out on shit!!!

[KostasKouvalis]

They clearly didn't miss out on the fucking

[nawtee_me]

They live it through their kids

[Asker]

True for some parents of any age lol

[HippieVeganJewslim]

No. Some didn’t even leave youth!

[Kelly6]

not really

[EaterPeter]

Not necessarily

[EaterPeter]

Thanks for like!

[EaterPeter]

People should have their first kid at least in their late 20s.

[Jouth]

I'm in my 20s

[jimmy2]

Yes on that