I've been described as a humble, wholesome woman and family oriented. I've only had two long-term relationships and never cheated.
My shortcoming:
I've always struggled making new friends (ever since my childhood years) and was never popular. There was a time I used to get socially bullied in middle school just for being quiet and shy. I have few friends and it's been 3 years since the last time I've been invited to a party.
Lets say if I would've been outgoing and popular, would I would've still been as described or are most people (of both genders) only faithful as long as they don't have options nor ever become popular?
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I can still be shy sometimes with new people and nope, I have never asked a man out on a date.
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Obviously, being unfaithful to your partner requires that there is somone else with whom you can cheat. If there is no one else to cheat with, you can't complete the act of being unfaithful.
However, that doesn't mean that everyone who has an opportunity does, in fact, cheat on their partner. Lack of opportunity is not the factor that leads most people to be faithful to their partner.
If I was in a relationship, I would be too shy to even talk to another man and will suck badly at lying. As a kid, I couldn't even keep up the lie about eating the cookies so keeping up a lie about sneaking behind your partner's back seems so elaborated. Also the very act of deliberately hurting your partner (it can't be mistake at all) cost a lot of effort and well thought out plans, too much for my brain to carry on.
I suck at lying... lol
I try to always practice the Golden Rule. I have been cheated on twice and I would not want to inflict that pain on anyone else.
If someone has the thought of willingness to cheat then it's not about what's available, it's that their current relationship is in shambles
Yes and I find that complicated. It's much easier to just tell your partner the issue or break up than elaborating the scheme of seeking someone else and hiding it... too much work.
Yup, weirdly though people are too afraid to ever admit their issues and become to comfortable as they are
People are faithful until they are given reason not to be faithful