Do I worry too much?

[jennifer_bloom]

Yesterday I texted a friend and when she did not reply I began to feel neglected and later I checked the time stamp and I realized she had replied in less than 2.5 hours! I am trying to be less nit picky about when friends aren’t available all the time. I’ve had this rejection intolerance for years and now it’s closer to mild discomfort and doubt.

[doggylover64]

Patience is your best friend even when you feel like it isn’t. I’ve had trouble with overthinking in the past, but 99% of the time it really isn’t a deep and people might just be busy. Unless you absolutely keep picking up on signs that somebody is bluntly ignoring you then I wouldn’t worry too much.

[Andinara]

yes you are too worried

[Tracker1958]

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[RealMarek]

Patience is a virtue. People have to do things without checking their phones frequently.

[Anonymous]

Considering that you also check your bills constantly to see if you can save 3 dollars somewhere I think you may be a bit obsessive compulsive. I do nit picky things sometimes as well sometimes so I recognize it.

[CaptainSmartass]

Nope. But then again, I can hardly talk. Just wait for your friend to reply. She's probably got all sorts of stuff to do.

Simples...

[collie22]

Different friends respond faster depending on how close we are

[Anonymous]

It can feel uncomfortable feeling neglected and it can play tricks with our minds. Is it something that often happens from the same person? Then it could be worrying.