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Did you ever end a long-term friendship?

I’m thinking of seriously removing someone off my life because she has been kind of toxic. I have known her since I was like 14 but I feel that she has become a different person that I had known. She is pestering me about making up with my cousin because she’s interested in meeting her. This is the kind of conversation we have every time we meet. She will ask me if I was seeing her and then assert that I should because she’s my cousin. I don’t really think it is fair for her to put pressure on me like that and give me unsolicited feedback on how to make up with her. For some reason she also keeps reminding me that if my cousin texts her they will hang out. I told her I don’t give a shit if they meet and that all I want is for them to leave me alone. When I communicate this to her she gets defensive and says she is not dying to meet her anyway. She says I’m making a big deal out of this, but she’s the one reminding me about my cousin every time we meet. Like she told me she really wants to have coffee with her because she has been following her on IG for 5 years. And she thinks she’s an amazing person and alll. But like I don't know why she needs to constantly talk like this. I’m thinking of unfollowing her on social media and ghosting her without explanation

Did you ever end a long-term friendship?
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