Does my friend not value me anymore?

[Anonymous]

my friend ignored me for a whole month & said she was going through boy problems yet she was on social media. I gave her a piece of her own medicine the first time & she kept blowing up my phone & that’s when i voiced my problem. Now she's ignoring me again & posting selfies but this time id rather just be her associate lol & be distant. It’s weird I think she trying to hurt me & this happened we ever since i got a boyfriend.

[Labokachulaa]

Maybe not, I've had this happen to me. I just moved on and forgot about her. Every once in awhile she'll pop up and message me. I'm very vague and I show no interest in what she has to say. Lol

That's probably not the best advice because being passive aggressive isn't the right way to do things, but this is my way of getting back at her for everything she's done to me.

[Asker]

no yeah I am too like friends don’t try and lower your value

[Labokachulaa]

Exactly, they're supposed to support you whether they agree or not. Or at least, that's what my definition of a friend includes. Some people see their friends as competition. I think that may be what's going on with you and your friend.

[Asker]

Yeah not lower my value aha I know my worth but make you feel less important & i know it’s a bit odd she’s offered to get me and him hotel free hotel rooms but has been a little competitive.

[Labokachulaa]

Yeah see, it sounds like she sees you as competition. That's not a good sign.

[Guy13]

It sounds like you are not a priority in her life. It does not mean it will always be that way. hang out for awhile.