She absolutely treats everyone else but me like trash. Is that a red flag?

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She is mean to everyone else except me. If I am talking and her friend interrupts, she says “shut the f… up. What were you saying hun?”

If I am talking, she basically roasts and scolds her friends if they interrupt me.

She absolutely treats everyone else but me like trash. Is that a red flag?

annabananna · Accepted Answer

She is comfortable being that way towards you and and not her friends and it’s not ok she treats you like that. It shows emotional immaturity. Talk to her about you not liking it and see if it changes. She may be trying to look cool in front of her friends.

Pinay_ako · Accepted Answer

Sounds like she’s a biiiiatch! Avoid her at all costs. Imagine if she doesn’t like you, she’d treat you like shit too. She’s not only a red flag. She’s a giant walking red flag waving at you to run away

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Once had a date with this gorgeous girl, who was well educated and witty but every restaurant, movie theatre or just anywhere we went on a date she treated the staff like shit and was rude. I remember tipping a waitress $200 because my date made her cry.

WanderingLoveWizard · Accepted Answer

It could just be how she is with her friends. Lots of girls do that and call eachother "bitch". It's only a red flag if she does it to strangers

Guccigabbana18 · Answer

It means that her "niceness" to you is not who she really is as a person. It's a form of manipulation, really, because she's putting on a "nice" act to impress you and get you to like her. Not because it's who she genuinely is. So she's being fake and in-genuine with you and hiding who she really is.

Who she is to those she doesn't need to impress or can't do anything for her is her true character.

Finchie40 · Answer

What are you complaining about? Would you rather her tell you to shut the fuck up instead? So to me it sounds like she adores you and she prioritizes you, when a girl doesn’t prioritize you , that’s when you need to worry

lightbulb27 · Answer

Yellow flag. But you are going to be dealing with a woman that doesn't moderate her emotions well, eventhough she is well meaning to focus on you right now. She likes you and is claiming you...

Quackthulu2 · Answer

If someone is a bitch to everyone but you, they are just a bitch.

RavVid · Answer

When she thinks you are committed not only will she shut up shop but she will start treating you the same.

Anonymous · Answer

i was in your situation sort of she physically assaulted one of her employees punching her in the face when she was younger didn't go to jail or prison though instead went to rehab. she had a temper about her sort of but also played the victim act as well even when she was in the wrong and got called out on it. she became extremely mentally and emotionally abusive towards me last year was with her for over 5 1/4 years

RealMarek · Answer

I married someone who treated others worse than she treated me. She proceeded to become abusive and that led to divorce. Yes, it’s a red flag.

Sleeper07 · Answer

If she is defensive about you it's because women don't actually like their friends. But she likes you so don't worry about it. Don't let her do that to your friends though.

Guy13 · Answer

Yeah, your time is coming when she loses respect for you for some reason

megabamse · Answer

That is a potential disaster waiting to happen. Only time will tell, but she might become abusive towards you in the end

FreyaRed · Answer

If she changes her mind, I assure she will do, you will suffer.

Heterosketero · Answer

Uhh, treat her like shit as you di t look back. Its not A red flag it is THE red flag. A rude women will fuck you over beyond repair, trust me.

Anonymous · Answer

Even by just seeing how someone treats working staff can tell you a lot about a person. Much less their friends. A definite red flag

Exterminatore · Answer

Yeah. If you were with her, once the honeymoon period was over she’d treat you likewise.

genericname85 · Answer

absolutely. it's only a matter of time. she'll treat you like that too eventually.

Iron_Man · Answer

Time will tell if she turns on you or not. How long have you known her? So far she’s not too bad. But she doesn’t have to swear.

NostalgiaSenpi · Answer

Yeah, watch her get nasty at you one of these times.

Jamie05rhs · Answer

She's loyal and she's sticking up for her man. I think that's really sweet!

SweetTwistedSatanist · Answer

Yeah it's going to be just you and her, nobody else to count on.

gorydetails · Answer

That’s a huge red flag. She’ll start bitching to you, too.

2willi · Answer

major red flag cause what happens when you get on her bad side?

msc545 · Answer

Major red flag. You will be next if you stick around.

Anonymous · Answer

They are terrible people, she's with you for some selfish reasons or stability.

imfreeze95 · Answer

One word psychopath enough said.

Ms_Facesitter · Answer

Crimson!

fonduegirl · Answer

Major one

Joker_ · Answer

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