Is it Jealousy or Misery that Makes Some People Say What they Do and even Stonewall You?

[Paris13]

***Any Thoughts? xxoo

[Leapfrog00]

From my experience, it seems like both. My aunt is a narcissist, and she was always putting down the little friends I did have. She didn't want me to have anything. Any sign of happiness and something was seriously wrong with me. She didn't have any friends because she was a nasty person who made everyone else miserable.

I've seen people not happy with their own lives, and then they get jealous of what other people have, and decide "If I can't have it, no one car." I gave up on humanity a long time ago, People are ignorant.

I think people feel threatened by others too. More than one person has gotten mad at me for being more intelligent than them. It's not my fault they can't go to the library, pick up a book, and learn something! lol.

If someone doesn't like themself, depending on the person, they will make it look like you're the one with the problem. They will call you stupid, when really they're just jealous because you're smart. I've gotten quite good at reading the miserable,

[Paris13]

My Sister Can Be a Bit of a Narcissist Herself. But I DO Give her Credit for Stopping Drinking and Getting Back on Track. As Far as BOOKS Go, She won't even Pick up the One I got Published. lol!!! xx

[Paris13]

Still Hurtful though. xx

[Leapfrog00]

You should tell her that it would mean a lot to you if she read your book. I know I'd be upset if someone I cared about didn't want to take the time to read one of my novels, if I ever decided to publish, lol.

I understand though. If she's a narcissist, she's probably jealous that you're a writer. Especially since you are doing something with your life. It's hard work but rewarding. Winning people like this over is pretty much difficult.

I went through his with my aunt. I'm sorry you have to go through this. They can make you feel really bad about yourself, and like you're nothing. Remember though, you're a writer, and you published something you wrote, so you're somebody. :)

[Paris13]

She would Not Even Read the Poem I has Written Mom For her Burial or Look at the Card and I Had to Force HER to Read My Dad's. My Book is Buried in Her Hoarder parlor. How pathetic. xx

[Leapfrog00]

That's so sad. It's probably a nice poem too, well written. You should tape it to the bathroom mirror. Then she'd have to read it.

[TooHot2Care]

Jealousy? Perhaps.

misery? Definitely, they are human after all.

but there’s one thing you’re missing:

Power.

[Paris13]

I have That Myself. xx

[TooHot2Care]

They want it.

[Paris13]

@TooHot2Care She Misinterprets her Own. xx

[SunnyLi]

I heard a phrase i can't forget. " Your friends want you to be better but not better than them" Jealousy is common problem and there is only one way to escape: Don't tell your future plans to anyone, even to your closest friends. After telling that, your brain feels comfort and stops worrying about your plans. And its efforts decreases enormously

[Paris13]

Welcome to Gag Town and Best of Luck. xx

[menina]

I would say it's both. If you're not happy with yourself, how can you be happy for other people? They're just wasting their lives and their precious time on Earth. It's sad.

[Paris13]

I know She is Wasting my Time. My Sister. xx

[menina]

She is, but she loses more than you. She's also wasting her time with jealousy.

[menina]

She should support you, instead of being jealous of you. She's your sister, that's not normal.

[Paris13]

Very Insecure. I have Told Her She will Lose me One day... xxoo

[menina]

It sounds like she is. I wouldn't be surprised if that happened one day.

Thanks for the MHO.

[strateguy632]

my opinion neither of those 2. stonewalling is when people get too emotional about an issue so can't handle talking about it. this is a type of defense for coping with that emotion.

[Paris13]

Cannot Handle Anything i SAY. lolxx

[Justmeagain1]

Depends on circumstance, some people just don’t know how to communicate at all.
Jealousy is the highest form of flattery.
Misery loves company.

[Paris13]

Her and Her Daughter. xx

[RealMarek]

One, the other, or both, but it doesn’t matter to me.
If someone treats me that way I just move on.

[Paris13]

Thinking Big Now. xx

[Massageman]

I would think that one feeds off of the other, and they would be pretty much stuck with the proverbial vicious cycle of crummy-ness.

[Paris13]

Crudeness Too. xx

[humanearth]

Mostly jealousy and envy. Well I guess that means the same thing

[Paris13]

Not Quite. xx

[humanearth]

Okay both of them

[mommymommymommy]

They just want to know why some people think they're born with a silver spoon in their mouths, as if egalitarianism doesn't actually exist

[Paris13]

I mainly See Competition on Her On End now... xx

[Likes2drive]

It’s both depending on the person or situation, misery loves company usually

[Paris13]

I agree. xx

[Sparkie460]

It's most likely both. They are jealous of others which makes them miserable

[Paris13]

How Sad and Sinful. xx

[HippieVeganJewslim]

Can be either or both. Hopefully neither. Just please worry not and be happy! I love You.

[Paris13]

Thank YOU, sweetheart!!! I Love You for This!!! xxoo

[HippieVeganJewslim]

OOΞΞ. Sorry, I don’t use x. I use the Hellenic letter ξι.

[Paris13]

X for A PECK. xxoo

[HippieVeganJewslim]

It’s just a Jewish tradition, not to write X, as many Jews who weren’t familiar with the American alphabet, wrote an O instead of an X for signing, thinking X is for Christ (on the cross?). That’s why We got the bad word κικε, meaning circle in Jewish.

[Greenbean27]

Hurt people, hurt people people that a miserable cause misery for others.

[Paris13]

Her Daughte rToo.. Misery Loves That Sort of Company. xx

[OlderAndWiser]

Both, I believe.

[Paris13]

Yes. xx

[TrueConfection]

I think it's both. I feel sorry for them.

[Paris13]

I do Too. Sinners. xx

[exitseven]

I really don't know, Paris.

[Paris13]

NP, @exitseven xx

[collie22]

Jealousy is on the dark side, just another one of Satan's tools

[TrillXHippy]

It feels like it could be both

[Paris13]

Yes. xx

[Ptrmbrs88]

Yes. Envy or misery or both.

[Paris13]

I thought as much. Welcome to Gag Town and Best of Luck. xx

[Roula2000]

That or disappointment.

[Paris13]

Welcome to Gag Town and Best of Luck. xx

[Roula2000]

Thank You

[msc545]

both usually

[Paris13]

Thanks. xx

[Bklynbadboy12]

Probably a little of both

[DarkLegacy]

Most probably both