Should I tell my guy friend that I've known since we where baby's that I like him?

[Anonymous]

[chrissykerdock]

maybe you should be asking your mother this... and your awfully young for this kind of commitment.

[Asker]

How would you know my age lol, I'm on anonymous, and I'm not to young and no way I'm gonna tell my mom that'd awkward

[chrissykerdock]

then your not ready as they say tell it to the mountain

[Asker]

Huh wdm I'm not ready? Just because I don't want to tell my mom it doesn't mean I'm not ready, I just don't her to know, I'll only tell her if him and I ever get together

[chrissykerdock]

you should ask her permission so she can know you like someone as a parent you want to know these feelings your child may have

[Asker]

Yeah well she's bestfriends with his mom and I've known him since I was a baby, like normally I'm not awkward or scared to tell my mom about that kind of stuff but now I am for this guy cause it's a childhood friend so it's not that easy

[chrissykerdock]

tell your mother immediately she needs to know your feelings about this boy

[Asker]

Why? , why is it so urgent for me to tell my mom?

[chrissykerdock]

because your too young to be doing this on your own

[Asker]

Oh ok 👍

[Annie_LevelUP_ADC]

No that sounds crazy. He'll run away if you say that. Just say that you always liked him, leave that baby stuff out of it. Trust.

[Asker]

Yeah but if he rejects me it could ruin the friendship and I don't want to lose a friendship like that, but I really like him tho

[Annie_LevelUP_ADC]

You're right. It could ruin the friendship. That risk is always there. You must decide if it's worth the risk or not. Life is short.

[Asker]

And wdym *no that sounds crazy he'll run away if say that* but then you say to just yell him that I've always liked him?, I meant like that he's my guy friend that I've known since him and I where baby's and I like him , it's been just a year since I've liked him , if that's what you where mixed up about

[Asker]

Yeah but I don't know like I talked to his sister but like she says that she doesn't know if he wants a girlfriend and like I'm scared that if I don't ever tell him that I like him that I'll lose a opportunity

[Annie_LevelUP_ADC]

Maybe a relationship is not on his mind. That's also the case with me. I'm not actively looking for it, but that doesn't mean that I'm not open to it. Maybe this is also the case for him. If he ticks all the boxes, I would definitely confess.

[Asker]

What does it mean if he ticks all the boxes?

[Drumlin2001]

Sure, go for it

[Asker]

What if he rejects me tho and then it ruin the friendship?, my mom and his mom are bestfriends so it would be very awkward if he rejects Mr or if him and I get together and then break up

[Drumlin2001]

Sounds like you're making excuses. Just do it. In life there's always a reason not to do something. Be brave

[Asker]

Okay thanks 👍

[DaBiggestBird]

Bell yeah