When did you realize your “friend” actually hated you?

[JustinTheGreat]

[DizzyDesii]

When one tried to catfish me as my ex.
When one said harsh things because i still didn't want to be more than friends.
When one slept with my ex.
When one acted like i didn't exist so that the school bully wouldn't target her as well.

Man i could go all day about all the former fakes but yea

[Steve32127]

When my best friend found out that he wasn't as big as he thought and he saw that I'm bigger down there. He slowly stopped calling/texting until we no longer communicate. The second time was when a girl was just using me for a shoulder to cry on and wanted sex constantly. As soon as she hooked back up then I got thrown away in a heartbeat. A lot of women use me for sex and it sounds great to most guys but it's not. I can't find anyone that's serious about a relationship, they just want sex. Typical scenario: I start dating someone and she loves having sex and playing with my junk... this lasts between 1-3 months until they get bored and leave for some dude that's a fraction of what I am.

[serious]

Well, I know as a fact many people dislike me for sure. I have never really had any friend so that part of the question is not applicable.

[catarecute]

some people only keep losers around as they make them feel better about themselves. one day when the loser achieve something big and becomes a winner that same day they realise who their so called friend is.

[Anemone978]

When I told her about guys I liked and she would say ewww he is ugly, or some other insult then she would proceed to sit on their lap or flirt with them in my face... The funny thing was they all liked me as a friend and would talk shit about her behind her back. I also found out later that the only reason she decided to be my friend was because I was friends with lots of good looking guys.. The stupid thing is I thought she was my best friend..

[jennifer_bloom]

In two cases it was when I caught them posting bad things about me online - one guy was pretending to be my friend so he could post all my embarrassing secrets to strangers and another guy was using me because he was poor and uneducated and did not know any university students other then me. When he found 3 room mates that were college age, he rejected me as a friend and started posting about how much he hated me to strangers online.

[mollysos]

One would make always make me the butt of the joke or always make belittling jokes about me based on race and gender. And sometimes they only acted nice when they wanted money.

[JosyJosy]

When I never really bothered to talk to them, but hey that's that facebook friendslist for you.

[Tessafowler03]

When she was telling lies behind my back…pitting me against another woman who is married

[Lokiion]

From the beginning not like we were friends to begin with just had the same friend group so we tolerated each as to not make it weird

[Kaiini]

Before they moved away they had the guts to make a hate letter before they left the state

[Jennz6]

When he said that I wasn’t a good lay