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Have you ever just disliked someone that is dating a person close to you like a good friend or sibling? What do you do? I just smile and bite my tongue but I can't stand my sister's boyfriend. How do you all handle it?
I didn't like my brother's first wife. She was immature, a drama queen and just really unpleasant. She would start fighting with him over THE most pointless, petty things. Example - she once asked him to grab her some mozzarella sticks while out. He forgot. That turned into a whole a*s situation. She was legit mad. Like it wasn't a joking "thanks for the mozzarella sticks" kind of stuff you laugh about. No. She started yelling and saying he didn't care about her and stuff. It was absolutely ridiculous.
I mostly just kept quiet on the situation. I only went off on her one time and that was when she tried to drag ME into her drama. I wasn't having it and I let her know about it. Needless to say, I won that little battle.
Divorce sucks and I typically wouldn't wish it on a couple, but I was pretty glad when I found out they were divorcing.
Yes. Freaking mozzarella sticks. It was a simple mistake. People get busy. They get side-tracked and forget things. It isn't a big deal. Yeah... to her it was a massive crisis. She was never appreciative of his gifts either. Once for her birthday, he had gotten her a beautiful necklace. He had took the time to go by himself and pick it out on his own. He then showed me before her birthday and asked me what I thought. I told him it was absolutely beautiful and he did a great job. When it came time to give her the gift, she was angry and disappointed that she got "just" a necklace. Her react was "that's it? That's ALL I get?" Then she went on a whole rant about how he never does anything special for her. I don't know what she was expecting. The necklace wasn't exactly cheap, so it was fine on its own. Besides, it's the thought that counts. I guess she was expecting some lavish event where she was showered by tons of gifts.
YES!
My sister used to date a guy that put his hand on her. And one time when he came over I heard him screaming down stairs (her room is in the basement) and they were outside and I saw her crying. So I yelled at him saying he is not allowed to be here. And that he better hold his breath when he is in our house cause he is not allowed to breath the air. 😂
Then my mom threaten to call the police if he didn't leave and then he left
she did, but that was a long time ago. Thank you:)
Why dont you like you sisters boyfriend?
that's horrible! He sounds like a narcissist.
I hope she finds someone better!
😊👍🏻
thank you for MHO!😆
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Oh yeah, more than I care to admit. Several of my friends would date someone I -knew- was bad for them or wasn't a good match for them. Or something about them just... rubbed me the wrong way.
Of course said friend just thought I was being "jealous" of their relationship or the other person.
I just avoid said person or stay out of their way. Because no matter what you say or do? They have to learn the hard way. Sucks, but it's true. So I usually distance myself from BOTH of them. I'll be cordial, but I won't try to befriend the other person, get to know them, or talk my friend out of dating them. Just watch from a safe distance until they wake up or come crying to me about how said person hurt them and I was right.
Not hated. But tolerated…
When you love someone, their family becomes an extension of themselves. So you just got to be cordial and tell your love one what’s bothering you if they are being disrespectful towards you. It’s up to your love one to disconnect or get you guys together to come to a peaceful solution.
Omg I hated my friends boyfriend in school. He was so controlling but also just plain weird. I had to go on a school trip once and he was going and I had to spend the whole time with him it was horrible. I of course had to be nice and pleasant with him though so I always was. They ended up breaking up because she realised how controlling and childish he was…lucky escape! He started being abusive towards the end.
Hated another friend’s boyfriend because he was incredibly abusive and controlling too. He was even jealous that she was getting a degree and making a life for herself so would try to manipulate her into dropping out. They broke up but he caused a lot of problems for her that she is now trying to work through.
Other than that I’ve liked my sister and friends exes until I found out they cheated
Yeah for sure! Only a couple times I absolutely hated a friends girlfriend honestly because she was a raging controlling bitch but that’s not as common. A few of my friend’s girl friends or exes have hated me but like in the worst way; low key hate. The crazy thing is my friend is the toxic one and has all the reasons in the book to be the hated one from just his drinking and reckless behavior alone. It’s kinda hard for me to imagine because we’re all adults here but I know it’s strong jealousy for sure! Yeah it’s annoying and uncomfortable being around someone whose not feeling your vibe but, oh well! I personally don’t give a fuck because I know I really didn’t go out of my way to make bad comments or gestures. The best part is that they are not my girlfriend and I really don’t have to like them if im feeling them (that’s my friends job) and I can choose to avoid them.
Meh, I suppose. If I don't like someone that is suddenly an item with a friend or something, I just distance myself from both of them. I take the "Not my problem" approach.
Later on they might break up and I'll just let a bro know by saying "Why do you think I quit hanging out? It wasn't you bro."
Yeah my best friends wife. I handled it by telling him all the negative things I saw. I spoke to him about her once before he got married then let it be. He has been married less than 2 years and all the issues I pointed out are causing issues for them rn. In my experience I say my piece from a point of love and respect then whatever decision they make I support.
Sisters boyfriend got her into drugs about 20years her elder and knocked her up 3 times, and was abusive. No matter what we could t get her to leave him. She is finally away from him but her life is in Ruins, lost all her kids and still an addict
Yes. I served a young Black woman for a few years as a non sexual sugar daddy and personal maid, etc, and one of the guys she was dating during my servitude to her was a mean, cruel nasty guy. Maureen loved to make me clean her apartment and serve them drinks whenever he came over to visit her, and he bullied, humiliated and abused me constantly.
Maureen dated Rodney for most of our relationship, and she had a seemingly unquenchable desire to have him degrade, debase and subjugate me as much as possible. But our relationship changed forever one night when she asked him to take his belt off and give me a good, hard bare bottom thrashing. He was only too happy to accommodate her request, and I can tell you that he definitely maximized his opportunity, beat me to his heart's content.
Hate is a strong word. I definitely didn't like my best friend's ex boyfriend but I didn't hate him. He was such an asshole and a Gemini and we all know what male Geminis can be like.
No. But a good friend was dating someone really over the top and loud, was a little too much. When she left to go back to her home country she made a thing about saying how I hated her, I didn't but wouldn't have socialised with her if not for my friend.
My sister's boyfriend is pond scum. He almost died once and I was disappointed he pulled through.
Yeah he's a cruel and nasty person. I'm not hateful but I hate him.
Yes. I’m cordial even though they know I dislike them.
there's nothing else to do. I don’t have to like their significant other. As long as they like them, that’s all that matters. All I can do it be there for them.
Yeah. Nothing you can really do. If they're abusive, though, I talk to and support the friend.
I do everything in my control to stay neutral and try not to involve myself in the he said/she said but regardless of what I think if they never wronged me directly I don't judge
Yep and it was almost always because their boyfriends were talking down to them and calling them the B word OR because their girlfriends were talking down to them and cheating on them
Yes, I would never bring it up though. You just have to accept it.
Yes, my best girl friend was dating an ah and I didn't want to had nothing to do with him. He was posesive, selfish, and made uncomfortable to everybody. 3 months later they broke up and I couldn't feel happier for her
Yes w/o counting I would guess six or eight times. I still have a problem w my brother's girlfriend.
"Hate" is too strong a word, but this girl my brother was dating his last year of HS and first year of college managed to annoy my whole family. I think what he saw in her was "big boobs". Fortunately it didn't last.
Me. My sisters husband is such a snob and a stuck up. Me just ignore him 🤨
Imagine he becomes her husband 😏
My mom’s boyfriend is find, but on the side and now on a regular basis she hooks up with her bestie, she’s hot but I don’t like her and now I feel like she just comes over the house to hook up with my mom
Yup, several times, but I know when it's not my place to make a comment, so I keep my thoughts to myself.
yes most of the time cause we think who they are date is bad for them or hit them or is just lazy or mean to the family.
hypothetical question... very sad 😭😭😭😭
I don't wanna happen in future to me
glad... have a great day
how is your job
Hated? No, but was wary around them as they gave of a vibe I found uncomfortable to be around, I was polite to them but nothing more.
Yes i did. My best friend boyfriend. He disliked me out of jealousy too
a friend of mine changed up his personality with his new girlfriend and became rather annoying to be around
I hate my sister's husband. But only because I'm jealous
And what's funny is, we often "hate" the very people, we actually "love"
That's definitely happened, but I kept my mouth shut.
Yes. Usually her mom beyond a couple of dads that wanted to kick my ass!
Why don't you like your sister's boyfriend?
I see. Thanks for replying!
Yes and still do even though she's his ex now
yea friends girlfriend, she was physically abusive
gotta hate them damn cocky people, they are usually the biggest cowards
Yup. Its annoying but what can you do.
Hate is expensive I don't spend on poor people...😊
my best mate slept with my mom
True
Do you have a photographic memory?
Ill remember that
No, but everyone hated my ex-wife.
Yes im going through that right now
Can I message you
That situation
Just needed some advice but if that's some you don't do in private I understand
I don't remember ever experiencing this.
Why you hate him for?
Yes, unfortunately.
You seem to not get along with a lot of people
u @PizzaPieMamaBear my apologies I didn't think that. I'm pretty happy person. Sorry if I gave a wrong impression.
Not you lol, LazarBean
u @PizzaPieMamaBear lolz okay hun
No, I know for facts other people don’t get along with you. Turns out you were lied to no one likes a string independent women. They’re loud and stupid. Shoulda had kids when you were young but you have a job in a cubicle with a boss who tells you what to do and would fire you in a heartbeat. Enjoy those spreadsheets and emails that’s fulfilling 😆
Just like your co workers I don’t listen to you #FailedBossBabe
Yes, my sister dated my ex
I don't have anyone who I'm close to, so no
Not hated. We just didn't get along.
Not that intense, I was just jealous a bit.
yes quite a few
No I've never hated anyone, dislike yes
I dont make associations with sisters SO's
Oh yeah
Thanks for like!
Yeah…. 🥲
She likes him you cannot do anything haha
Yes dislike.
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