If so, what was it that you didn't like about them in the beginning? What did they do that changed your mind? Do you think it was more your own personal problems, or did they actually behave in ways you didn't like?
I’ve never hated anyone.
I highly disliked one of my close friends because she let people walk all over her and was a professional victim. She lied about dumb stuff and was manipulative. She was a friend of my best friend , she knew I didn’t like her, but she still tried to befriend me. It took about 3 years for us to actually become friends. She matured and owned up to her shit.
There was also this one guy who all the girls swooned over. He had a big ass head (full of himself) which was an automatic turn off. He just annoyed me, lmao. But he kept randomly popping up and helping me and gave me cookies every now and then so he wasn’t that bad, lol. There was nothing wrong with him, I just hate cocky guys. But if girls are literally screaming over him I guess it’s normal for his head to be that huge.
Hate is a strong word to use against a stranger. Maybe dislike if they have shown me disrespect or we just don’t vibe well. And yes I have. My best friend and I started that way. The more we hung out, the more we started to get to know each other, we both realized we like each other 😂
Yes there was a girl at school, we constantly slagged each other off. I think about 4 years from 11 to 15 we would have a go at each other, shouting etc, fairly toxic.
however she moved away and we got on separate lives. I then bumped into her at Air Cadets camp and for some utterly bizarre reason we hit it off after some guy had a go at her and I stepped in to defend her.
we started dating for nearly 2 years
still friends
I used to hate my boss. Now I can tolerate him. Sort of. I don't have fantasies about slamming his face into his desk anymore, so that's progress I think.
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Yep. Usually starts out that way when I really truly like someone, I hate them at first. My best friend for instance I couldn't stand at first because I thought she was a drama queen, but she turned out being the sweetest person I've ever met. We're friends to this day, going on 13 years.
m not without a valid reason
I used to hate that one classmate because he was aggressive n so rude to everyone n to me
a year had passed n when we came back to school he was still the same but less bad as a person, I noticed he kept on getting better so I hated him less
we r friends now after years
HATED? No. In the rare instances where I've thought "YIKES" about a person as a first opinion I've never had a change of heart because I know I can trust my instincts.
(Have I regretted letting certain people close who I SHOULD have thought "YIKES!" about? Yeah, but such is life.)
I didn't do the hating, but there were a few women that hated me when they first met me until they got to know me as a devoted mom, a nice person, always willing to help and care about others, etc.
But the real reason I think they hated me was because that I was attractive and had a good figure. Something the Lord Made, because I never dieted or worked out.
They were overweight but hated me because they were jealous and jealousy is a hate!
For sure! That’s how two of my friendships have started. And funny enough. They were the best ones I had growing up
Yeah a guy I used to work with back in college. We couldn't stand each other at first.
Honestly? No. I tend to go with my gut feeling, and I am struggling to think of even one instance where the above has happened.
Never. “Hate” is a powerful word. It’s my opinion that one cannot swing from hate to affinity without some defect of their faculties.
I wouldn’t say hated, but there were people who left a bad first impression that I changed my mind about after getting to know them better.
u not hate, no...
but yes, Katy Perry...
No, because if i hate them then i usually do it because they go against my morals and values and i will not forgive that at all. So that means they will stay hated.
People say that a lot about me. Nobody likes me at first. But then I grow on you... like a fungus.😂
Nope, but I already have loved someone to begin and ended hating them
No but there is somebody I thought was okay and after I got ot know him better I hate him.
Yes my ex.. i hated her so much.. but she was true, i had to accept her opinion that im a nutless impotent
Yes i thought she had a shitty attitude but the more I got to know her the cooler she was we're still friends to this day going on 12 years now
Yes, I knew a girl who talked kind of trashy but after I got to know her, she was actually quite sweet.
Saw it happening in movies but never really encountered this situation
Yes! 😭
No. First impressions and gut is usually right
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