
Do you ever Wonder Who in your Immediate Family will Die First?


For me, it's who will die next. My parents and brother are already dead. Even though I don't feel at all old or decrepit, I still feel like I'm in my 20's or 30's, I have a feel I'm next, thanks to an ailment or two that might cause my early demise. The doctors, of course, don't have a fucking CLUE what they're doing and REFUSE to try alternate methods because it doesn't put money in their pockets!! and I can't FIND the ones I want to try!! They say they're VERY easy to get and you can get them ANYWHERE! Well, I've TRIED a number of the places they say I can get them and I hit nothing but brick walls!!
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That is a hard topic.
First my grandfather who also was a father to me.
Than my finance.. ( in the most horrible way never came over that. still not... and so she is still part of me... After more then 28 years.
After that i didn't realy care anymore.
Lol uh auto correct : fiancee
Thank you... My ex could not life with that.. but now i found someone truly special.. 🥰 she understands that she stays a part of me till i die..
My Opa did first in 2017.
My Oma, and a few weeks later my Mom in 2020 on my Dad's Birthday.
So that already happened.
I Hear You. xx
Likely my Granny. Cause she’s getting there. She’s like 93. I’m sure she’ll make it to 100 cause she’s tough.
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Grandmother died last year. As for nuclear family, probably me or my dad. My dad is iver 5.5 years older than my mom. My mom's body is breaking down, but her mobility is beyond that of others that are in a similar position. I should have died at 18 and am not that healthy now. I can't work out because of COVID-19 and reasons.
She was about the same age as Elizabeth II and had an ultimately good life. Got to meet all her kids and grandchildren in the last year and died with 3 of her 4 daughters with her. We knew it was coming, we just didn't know exactly when. That's all that matters in the end, having a good life, because it may be all you get. Maybe there's no reincarnation, maybe there's no afterlife.
I don't need to wonder. My father died first, then my mother and then my sister. I'm the only one remaining.
Otherwise, I'm thinking I might be the first to go, over my ex-wife and out three kids.
Not really. Death is part of life and it will happen to all of us eventually but I choose not to think about it too much and just enjoy life and the company of those that matter the most to me.
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No. The only family still intact. All of my uncles and aunts are dead and at least one person out of each of our cousins families is dead. My mom and all my siblings are still alive (I grew up without a dad). My mom is 90 and before she lost her ability to communicate she had said that she was tired of life and just wanted to go home. She was very intelligent, and she hated the idea of losing her cognitive abilities. But her body is really healthy. All of us are still here, but it seems like when one goes it’s gonna be a domino effect. Three of my siblings has really bad health.
Wait and see.
actually no cause thinking about that would make me too depressed and sad because only God tell who will die
My father died on December 30, 2007. I wonder which of my siblings will go first, and I suspect it will be my older sister.
I don't usually want to think about this kind of thing, but right now my mom is the oldest living member of the family. But who knows?
I try not to think in those terms, but, I am somewhat prepared in the event it happens.
the ones who work a dangerous job will die first
Don't need to wonder. The amount of risks I take it'll definitely be me.
Yes, I think about my grandfather. But I don't like to think about this...
Yes, They Usually Go First. xx
Unfortunately that's true.
not anymore, i have zero family left alive.
Yes but I don't like to think about it. It hurts to think about it.
Good question, and Yes I do wonder that>
I wouldn't like to think about that. But to give you an opinion, when someone I know dies , I immediately think:„what If mom died? How would I feel about that?". That's my opinion
Never. Not even upon reading this. However it did lead me to think you are next in your family.. strange.
I have never thought about that it is strange.
The only thing I remember ever thinking in relation to death is I used to think I could not live if something happened to my sister because I was always with her. We are all’s till alive and I’ve never thought about this.. I believe you Cary negative vibes if you start to wander those paths. There’s no reason for it but it giving off negative energy. I didn’t even want to re open this reply even. Just negative vibes negative energy all’s round this.
Its either my mom due to bad health or my sister in a car accident cause she drives crazy. Outside of that its my fathers dad
I stopped doing that. It turned out to be too accurate...
Might be my paternal grandmother, 83. She’s the only grandparent I have alive. I think all of my great-grandparents are deceased.
Yes. I think it's gonna be my dad. And I always rhink about unlocking his phone and transferring all his money to my account.
@Bloopbloopbloop Your father must have a lot of money, so you are thinking about his money haha
No, I don't. I wonder which pet will die first.
No I do not wonder about that. Life nowadays is not predictable. Anyone can die at any age.
Yes I have thought about it. I don't want to say who I think would be the next person to go
I only have my wife and kids left.
Sometimes I do but every one on my moms side is gone
Yeah, my mom and and everyone else never made it to retirement age either
Mother and father are already dead, there is a sister and brother, God knows everything..
Honestly, it's not really a question that pops into my mind often... At least not that sort of dying.. LOL..
I think my 89 year old mother will be the next family member to go. I'm basing this on her age & health. But you never know what may or could happen. I may get run over buy a truck on the way to work on Monday.
Didn't decide that yet though...
me! and it will be a party
Oh yeah. My bets on my dad.
No. I try not too
I am?
No, I have a grandmother who is coming up on 100. I try not to think about it.
They already died
No I don't want to think about it
Funny you asked this because i was wondering just yesterday.
No, I never entertain such thoughts.
Morbid. But the thought has crossed my mind.
Dad went first, before mum, it was 50/50 though,,,
They are all already dead.
I have bets on most. The most angriest or racist always die last. They have something to live for,
I don't even want to go there where it has already happened and suddenly due to neglect
Since I don't have a family, I am spared the concern of worrying about this.
No I try not to think about that cause it makes me really sad and anxious when I do
Hopefully my mother she's 84 and I'm an only child lol
Yikes! No.
Yes..
My sister died when she was only 24 😢
All the time
Yup, and it makes me sad
I always knew it would be my father.
I hope it is me
No, cause I don't care
Yeah I do
Don't want to think about it.
No I don't, no right minded person would
Nope, it already happened to my dad.
Hoping its me.
HOPEFULLY ME
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