Would you be okay with your neighbors interfere into your kids' upbringing without asking you?

[scooogy]

They could most likely want to do you a favor, but it would be up to you to judge about the outcome.

[StarWarGirl]

No. They might be good in some part but could be totally opposite to me in other. So even if my child is learning something from other person I want my child to ask me about it before adapting it.

[scooogy]

What if you had an only child and the neighbor had several kids?

[StarWarGirl]

That also doesn't justify that, that person would have better thoughts better ideology. That person thoughts, ideology comes by their life experience, their past and surroundings. Having many child doesn't add any bit of contribution to it. I trust myself better than anybody.

And I have some bitter experience in my life, after that incident I'm damn sure to be only and only parents to be the closest to child the true guardian and true path guider. No matter other person has 10,000 good qualities but there is still risk of that 1 thing to be in that person which would make my child to go through tough time or could fill my child mind with something poison. I would never ever want it to happen.

[TheSpaceGnome]

If I had kids, no. I don't want kids though.

[BoopBoopBeep]

depends on what it is/was that they did

[genericname85]

how would my neighbors interfere with my kids upbringing. i don't even get how that could happen.

[slatyb]

Interfere? How?