Should I listen to my friend or do what I want?

[Anonymous]

My friend said Tbh I don't know why you’re even bothering him tho like your way young. Do you think he’s gonna want you be with you? Grown men don’t want younger. Like he’s almost 40 he’s not gonna want a relationship with a young girl. Just saying like do what you want but it’s facts I’m 18 and my ex friend is 36 and plus I wanted to be friends and not be in a relationship with him and I’m not to sure if I should send him a friend request since we ended on really bad terms I should probably leave it alone I don’t know what to do

[RoseySarah]

So your not sure about sending a 40 year old guy a friend request?

Sure go for it

Don't listen to your ex friend. Old guys like young girls and date them and just know he might get creepy or just want sex not a relationship.

[Asker]

I’m just nervous he won’t except my request because of all of the drama that happened so you think I should make a new account so I can send him a friend request

[RoseySarah]

Sure go for it! Be sexy in the photo and stuff.
Really get his attention

What drama happened?

Your female friend was mad you wanted to send him a request?

How did you know her?

[Asker]

It’s a long story I can tell you if you want I’m blushing so hard right now lol my friend it’s a male he got upset because I want to send my crush a friend request I think the reason why my male friend is mad because his girlfriend cheated on him not once but twice and got pregnant and her boyfriend beat her up and now he is in jail and now my male friend is taking care of her

[RoseySarah]

What o yeah well pretty jealous you get a nice 40 year old while he has drama for his crush!

So sad he gets the pregnant seconds on that girl. Once her boyfriend gets out she will run right back leaving him!

Sure I won't mind hearing it!

[Asker]

I feel bad for him because he knows he is getting played so hard right now my crush probably use me as well but at least he made me feel wanted but this is one of my other post I want to send him a friend request but nervous he won’t except it because of all the drama

so one day I was looking at his tag post and I saw him with this girl it wasn’t nothing bad it was no kissing nothing like that and it was a while ago so I thought it was his baby and to found out it’s his girlfriend that’s what she say I’m not sure but she kept trying to give him to me she was telling me I can have him I comfort him and the next day he unfriended me I found it weird because he would always want me to come over even if he had people around he bought me Ubers so I can see him he would hug me for a while and tight and when we get done having sex I would tell him I have to go home because I couldn’t stay long so he would cuddle me I until the Uber come and pick me up me and him was going to be together we was just friends and I didn’t mind if he was sleeping around with other females since I’m Polyamory but since that girl that calms to his girlfriend kinda ruined how I felt about him none of his friends or family knew he had a girlfriend I want to send him a friend request but maybe in the future I’m nervous he won’t except my friend request because all of the drama

[RoseySarah]

Go for it and is it a dating site or social media?

Lmao she gave you him means she hated him and probably for good reason.

My cousin did that in college he was so awful did not last half a date no wonder she wants him away from her to someone else!

How old is she?

[Asker]

It’s on social media Facebook I feel like they are probably unhappy with each other and she probably knew he was doing something I was like ain’t that your boyfriend tho? I literally had to tell her to stop because she kept saying I can have him he doesn’t even have a car 🤦‍♀️ she looks about his age and I bet that was the best decision that your cousin made because these guys be doing the most

[RoseySarah]

Yup so going to listen to her and take him? Send him a friend request?

Why would your friend let himself get played so hard?

[Asker]

I think I’m going to wait until I’m older to add him for the new account should I post pictures of me and use my name or no and he said because he really loves her even though she cheated on him and he bought her two dogs and then a other one since he is taking care of her

[RoseySarah]

O yeah sounds like a simp that won't leave her! Huge red flags

Better wait 😉 but till your how much older?

Thanks for the fun question!

[RoseySarah]

Give me a follow if you wanna get some more fun advice

[Asker]

I really hope I don’t be like my friend being a simp I have 60 days until I’m 18! The guy I wanted to send a friend request when we would have a little fight he would tell me when you get grown text me so we can be together and I just followed you!!!

[RoseySarah]

Thanks for the follow yeah wait a little so sure you will find one one way better!

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

I think it was her way of trying to warn you that you befriending this guy might be misconstrued as you coming onto him and ruining any chance you have at a friendship because men are gross like that.

[Asker]

My friend that told me that he is 27 he is almost as old as that guy I want to send a friend request kinda got me a little confused me and him was friends when I was 15

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Creepy, sounds like grooming

[Asker]

who my friend or the guy I want to send the friend request to and guys are gross they are almost the exact same

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Yeah, sounds like they’re the same

[Asker]

I’m about to go off on my friend I told him that I sent the guy a friend request and he said Omg He’s gonna tweak and I said what do he mean by that Like I don't know but if he deleted you maybe it’s not a good sign I’m about to tell him but did you go back to the woman that cheated on you not once but twice and then she got pregnant and now her ex boyfriend is in jail for beating her up and now my friend have to take care of her to me that sounds like some simp stuff