Am I wrong for feeling kind of hurt?

[Anonymous]

my childhood best friend asked me to be the maid of honor at her wedding. I helped with everything paid for everything etc. she had “ messed up” the tables at the reception and whole bridal party was supposed to sit at the table with the bride and groom. However, there was no extra seat for me who was supposed to sit there as well. When I kindly mentioned it to the bride, all she said was whatever and asked for her phone. And while I didn’t mind really sitting somewhere else I felt hurt and kind of left out. That was really all she said to me the entire night. I’m not trying to sound petty but I can’t help but feel kind of upset about it. I don’t wanna make a big stink about it because I don’t wanna sound petty. But it did hurt.

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+1 y

i should add that she let other random people at the table to, other childhood friends she doesn’t even talk to.

[RoseySarah]

No girl so be hurt and take it how it feels!

Just from this she is a bad friend! But also if sher night but that does not mean you act so badly to others!

What did you pay for?

Certainly this was not the first time she acted like this and so won't be the last.

Feel how you feel it was not right of her to do.

[Asker]

in my religion, we have a custom where the bride and groom at the ceremony wear expensive, special crowns, I also paid for candles and party favors which cost me a bit over $1000. I also took them out for meals twice. And then I did the decorations.

[Tharithi]

Damnnnn. I feel u girl. And when I left those trashy group of friends. They bullied my because they were scared of what they did to me

[RoseySarah]

I don't know her but from this yeah she used you and rejected you completely!

[Asker]

she really did use me

[RoseySarah]

Has she used you before like this?

[Anonymous]

I would have lost my shit right there at the wedding if someone said whatever to me after I paid for things for the wedding. What a B

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

You have a right to be hurt. That friend of yours is a major b*&#* and I suggest don't be her friend anymore because she clearly doesn't value you as you do her.

Goes to show a good deed doesn't go unpunished.

[lightbulb27]

she sounds peeved at you, don't know why.. holding a grudge, jealous? or maybe she's pmsing, having fights with her husband, preganant or under too much stress and a poor manager?

it's up to you...

[Tharithi]

It’s just an extra seat. Damnnn. She really humiliated u. I was also in a similar position and I walked out.

[Asker]

I feel like absolute crap. I had to walk out side and cry, and then come back in and act like nothing happened

[Tharithi]

I did the same too. And gaslighted myself thinking it was a mistake. How come only your seat wasn’t there. U were the maid of honour. I am truly sorry for u

[Asker]

yeah it’s really not fair

[Srose66]

She sounds ungrateful. I would not only be hurt but a bit mad. I think you should avoid this person. Sounds like a toxic kind of person to not appreciate you or feel for you.

[noohair]

Sometimes a friendship evolves into an acquaintance. Now you know the true value of the relationship. Also brides are self focused on this day. It is all about them.

[Asker]

she’s been self focused all her life lol. that ain’t anything new

[noohair]

Well you have your answer.

[Wise4myage]

No you had every right to feel hurt. I wouldn’t blame you if you refused to attend.

[Asker]

i refuse to have a conversation with her after this happened

[Wise4myage]

Well she used you, so I don’t blame you.

[Asker]

exactly!! that’s exactly what she did!!

[Wise4myage]

Hugs!!!

[Asker]

the night before she kept “joking” saying “i’ll make my cousin my MOH instead”

[Wise4myage]

She wasn’t joking.

[Asker]

yeah i know she wasn’t

[Staximus]

You shouldn't have paid for anything and you have the right to feel hurt

[Anonymous]

Aw darling she used you...
Such a good friend you're

[Asker]

yea i know she did :(

[Opinion Owner]

Don't feel bad sweetheart..
It's her loss having friend like you is a blessing 😘

[jahaims]

She isn't your friend

[Asker]

she’s really not

[jimmy2]

Wow time to split ip