Why do I hate initiating a conversation even through text messages?

[Anonymous]

With girls or guys.

[IslaTheWitch]

Because you don't like it.

Accept it.

And now you have two paths. Leave it as it is, or change it by exercising sending initial messages.

[Asker]

People often leave me on read or hanging it makes me feel so stupid and unimportant to people that i genuinely like. I feel like im so underappreciated and useless to people i like talking to/hangout with.
Not that im clingy, no, i just notice a pattern where people *nowadays* dont seem show that they can conversing well or maintain friendships.

[IslaTheWitch]

Those are YOUR assumptions. No one told you you are "stupid" or "unimportant". If you don't like it voice it. Tell people you are talking with that you feel bad left on read. How they would know if you didn't tell them?

Stop creating reality, and start living in the real world. Communicate