I remember a very long time ago I told my mother what issues I was having with a girl I was dating. She said “Oh Joey that girl has no respect for you”.
Now that wasn’t what I wanted to hear but it was exactly what I needed to hear at that time. It was unfortunately very true. The girl I was interested in really was a selfish pos who was just using me. But no one ever encouraged me to draw the line and cut her off.
Anyway it was an extremely rare moment for my mother to say something like that. Usually she was guilting me into kissing women’s asses. My parents were all about old school chivalry at the unfortunately lead to me giving certain women way more leeway that they exploited.
But why don’t more parents warn their sons about the wrong kind of women? It’s a societal standard to condition their daughters to avoid certain kinds of men (although not all daughters follow that advice). But why are men expected to just “get it” compared to young women?
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