Is it true that good people are blessed?

[Anonymous]

I have 6 siblings one brother. The eldest is rich one most are poor. My other sister said my eldest sister is blessed because she's good to my siblings. " I dont agree with her because the eldest sister is not even good sister to me. I would say her husband is blessed because he's the good person and because they are married his blessings are shared with her despite her being arrogant and mean sometimes its like without him there's no blessings" Thoughts?

[Oliverlogan263]

Okay, let me try to explain. It seems like there's definitely more to the story with your family situation that maybe I'm not fully grasping. Family dynamics can definitely be complicated. But from what you've told me, it doesn't really sound fair for your other sister to say that your oldest sister is only blessed because she's nice to some of you guys. If she's not treating you with kindness and respect too, then she can't really claim to be this amazing, good person deserving of blessings. And you make a good point that a lot of her blessings probably come more from her husband than anything she's directly doing herself. It sounds like he might be the really good, generous person who helps provide for their family and share what he has. So in that way, I can see why his good heart and character would lead to blessings, and as his wife she benefits from that too. But that doesn't automatically make her good or deserving. You deserve to be treated with love and respect from your sisters too, not just your other siblings. Family is supposed to look out for each other, so it stinks that she seems to single you out badly. Don't let your other sister convince you her sister is so perfect - you know the truth of how you're treated. Stay strong in believing your worth isn't defined by one difficult sister! Hopefully over time she'll come to appreciate you more.

[ohsheeT]

My thoughts are don't worry about it that's between them and themselves just like you are between you and yourself do not judge do not get into people's drama be kind give a helping hand become one with yourself become one with others and become one with this universe marry your heart and your mind together at all times and you can have anything you want