I’m 25. Can my parents still tell me to come home when I’m on vacation?

[Anonymous]

Anytime I travel they always tell me to come home.
I never have any sort of freedom.
I’m sick of it like seriously.
Now once I get married my mom wants me
And my husband to come live her. This happens a lot 🥺

[4ngelic]

at 25 they can't tell you what to do anymore...

to fix the situation have a talk with them, tell them respectfully that you're a grown ass adult now so you can travel where you want, live where you want etc... and that them being too overprotective like that is really bothering you and you'd like them to stop. that should do it. if it doesn't work just choose to ignore them when they try to boss you around

[EmmaMary]

Bigger fool you for putting up with this... Move out and start living your life.

[EmmaMary]

Thank you for the MHO.

[JoePro_]

No. I feel like that's a violation of boundaries. Being concerned with your safety is one thing, but ending a vacation for you early because... whatever reason really... That's too much. Whether you live with them or not, pay rent or not, whatever. They're controlling is what they are. You need to fix it, set some boundaries or something.

[exitseven]

She is very controlling. You need to exert your independence.

[exitseven]

Thanks for the MHO

[BoopBoopBeep]

Seems like a good time to move out then.

[IslaTheWitch]

They can tell whatever they want. The question is if you will comply

[Nikki1989]

Hell NO. You should have stopped listening to your parents many years ago.

[LiamJHayden]

To the Western mind that sounds preposterous, but as you're anon we do know neither where you live nor the culture of your parents.

[TheSpaceGnome]

No, you can do what you want without your parent's having any say, you're an adult.

[jahaims]

Literally don't listen to them. Pretty easy solution

[noohair]

Do you support yourself without help from your parents?

[ab2shifty]

Pretty sure at 25 they can’t tell u what to do

[Luckycharms12]

You don't have to come home