Why do I overdo for my family family?

[Anonymous]

In My family I always do the labour when the family goes through tough times. I am always available when my parents go through tough times but I never get appreciated for that, they just dump their responsibility on me when I can not handle the pressure I get frustrated and angry, they blame me saying I say hurtful things to them. They appreciate my big sister who never takes on any house responsibility and has good income and she gives them expensive gift and help them with money. They never appreciate the time and care I give to the family. They do not give me attention and treat me like I am invisible. If I give disagree with my parents anf my sister backs me on my argument they say that I brainwashed my sister. Currently I am looking for job, I am not getting. I was sick for last 4-5 years for depression and I got behind of my peers. I am just dying to have a job so that I can move out

[Sameone]

Your age between 30 to 35 and you still living With your family?

How is hard to find job in your country! ?

Ofc they will keep ignoring you until you start making your own money

[Asker]

I became seriously ill during my posr grad and got behind for 4-5 years I am applying jobs but not getting any calls

[Sameone]

Just find husband and be housewife
Because if you was looking for job for 5 years and u didn't find
This thing is unbelievable or is there problem in your cv
Work as waiters cleaner... Simples jobs

[Sameone]

What do you want to work engineering flight's

[Sameone]

If you was living in Europe or USA. No one is going to believe you 5 year and you didn't find job

[Asker]

Read Again I was sick for 4-5 years. I am looking for job for last 3 months. World does not revolve around usa or Europe, there are other countries too

[Sameone]

Anyway i wish you are okay now

And stop looking for job try to find a husband and be housewife better 😊

[stark04]

I didn't know taking care of your family is a burden.

[Asker]

Yes it is burden if one member is scapegoat for everyone's problems. Nobody wants be treated like a maid and then get disrespected.

[strateguy632]

that is a difficult situation so feeling that way is natural.