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Is my mom being a little controlling or am I overreacting?

I genuinely want to be with my boyfriend I’m feeling pressured by my mom because she doesn’t want me to talk to him My mom said she didn’t want me to go to his house but I can keep talking to him from a distance and me and him agree and now she said she doesn’t want me to talk to him anymore and I said ok and she said well I don’t see why you ended things with him and I said because you wanted me to stop talking to him and she ignored what I said and I said it again and then she still didn’t say anything so I went back talking to him and now she is saying that she doesn’t want me to talk to him and then she said she wants me to make my own decision and I said well I really don’t want to end things with him so I’m not going to and she said no and I said but you wanted me to make my own decisions so I did I’m just trying to do what you said she wanted to go to his work place if she did she would’ve got him fired but then she said she not going to do that because he probably needs his job everytime I say I’m going to keep talking to him she say no and when I end things with him she said that it wasn’t meant to be and she didn’t see the point of me ending things with him when I want to make it work with him she say no and say that I got to make choices about what I want to do and when I do she gets upset I’m just really confused I’m being honest with my mom and I told her that it’s not easy for me to explain my feelings and she said I don’t know why it’s hard for you to explain your feelings and I told her that I’m not use to it but I’m trying to make a difference because you told me to talk to you and that’s what I’m trying to do even though it’s not easy I try my best to help my mom whenever I get paid I give her money so I can pay the rent I help her with the house I buy her whatever she wants and I gave her my wallet sometimes I be looking for my wallet but she already have it and I try to respect her concerns but I’m feeling lost
Is my mom being a little controlling or am I overreacting?
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