I feel like my mom isn’t supportive and doesn’t care about me sometimes. Am I overreacting?

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My mom finds so many excuses to not do things with me and has always been this way. Even when I was in high school she’d go away on weekends with guys she was dating and leave me all alone. Whenever I needed her support through a breakup or any emotional issues she would just tell me I’m pouting and would just tell me to leave her out of it. She never came to like any events of mine growing up, like for school. All the other parents would go and I’d constantly be asked where my mom is.
I had to go on a medical leave of absence one month from work. She didn’t come see me once and I live alone in the city. Like wouldn’t parents be concerned if their child wasn’t in a good situation like that?
She does the bare minimum in terms of supporting me. I have a horse riding competition in early June and she is finding so many excuses not to go with. It’s just weird because every other girls parents are with them and seem excited and devoted to it.
Any time I confront my mom about an issue relating to this she just shuts down and gets annoyed, even fake cries and says she has a headache.
I feel like my mom isn’t supportive and doesn’t care about me sometimes. Am I overreacting?
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