My alcoholic sister is a demonic little swine…at wits end help?

[Anonymous]

I’m 28 and she’s 21.

she was diagnosed with high spectrum autism as a teenager so has social issues, not severely but has social anxiety. She’s never had friends and been a hermit her whole life. She abuses my elderly parents to get her alcohol every night and before you say why do they do it. If they don’t she damages property and acts like a psycho. Police have been involved many times and don’t do much because they reckon it’s a mental health issue.

i ended up moving back home to help my mum who had a stroke (while getting her wine) and she also seperated from my dad.

I've been living with them for about a year now and it’s been fucking miserable, I hate her guts. She says she’s depressed and no one cares yet I’m always trying to get her out but all she wants to do is eat drink smoke weed and sleep.

just tonight she threatens to stab herself and I had to chase her to get the knife of her, I’m also scared because my mum tries to and I’m scared she will accidentally stab my mum.

she physically abuses me and punches me when she’s drunk and damages the beautiful house I’ve made for us.

there is no where for her to go, the cops don’t wanna arrest her. I’m at wits end that I actually want to physically beat her up and knock some sense into her,

so tired and she drains the living soul out of us

[meepmeeperton]

I'd suggest whooping her ass with a belt. Maybe getting treated like a little child would humble her. If she's drunkenly abusing you and the police won't do anything, I don't think violence is off the table. However, avoid doing any serious physical damage to her like punching her in the face and breaking her nose. It sounds silly, but aim for her butt with a belt and see how that goes.

[Asker]

I think I’m going to try that because she’s been getting away with it for too long

[meepmeeperton]

Feel free to report back on how it went if you do!

[MasterKS]

this is sad condition you suffering, there is so hard to say one solution but you have to be tough and smart, i encounter these kind of situations before.

[MasterKS]

@asker is it possible to talk? how could i follow you?

[Cutegirl06]

Sounds like she belongs in rehab. You buying her wine is just enabling her. Why don't you admit her to a psych unit if she's a danger to herself and others? She certainly needs help.

[Asker]

can't get her into rehab there is a 1 year long waiting list that she’s on and if u go private that’s 3k plus a month we don’t have

[Cutegirl06]

No emergency services? She does need her ass beat but you're the one who will probably go to jail. She's 21 She's responsible for her own actions now. She needs to know that there are consequences for her behavior.

[jahaims]

Put her in a mental hospital

[MK1997]

Sent her to rehab

[Asker]

can't get her into rehab there is a 1 year long waiting list that she’s on and if u go private that’s 3k plus a month we don’t have

[MK1997]

Sent her to psych hospital