What should I think about this?

[Anonymous]

Yesterday my 7 years old nephew spilled a cup of water on my desk and there was my sister's laptop which she gave me to take care of it, and there was my charger and there was my phone. When I saw the water on desk I got mad on my nephew and yelled at him little bit because I was so scared if the laptop got wet and my charger. And today when I was alone with my nephew I asked him "Did I hurt you yesterday? I'm so sorry I regret" and we hugged each other I told him how much I love him and how I was scared about laptop yesterday and then my nephew told me "my mom said in elevator "don't touch that girl's stuff and don't enter her room, such a stupid girl, I'll fuck her up" when I heard these my perspective about his mother changed just now, what should I do about it, his mother is 2 faced, she never pouted at me yesterday and when I heard that news from my nephew I felt weird.

[DontAskMePeople]

Hmmmm,

32 lives at home

can't face up to problems in life

Don't have a bank balance high enough to replace a laptop and charger

Acts out at children in anger

=

Most likely fake account or content creator?

Is it just me or is this common here?

GAG can I get a job?

Thanks

[Asker]

Are you an idiot? I created this account randomly because I didn't want to bother with choosing age and after I get the answers I planned to delete the account back already. Stop trying to act like you are the only smart here. I am 17 soon 18

[Asker]

Stop yapping like you know so much

[Asker]

Am I a magnet who pulls only stupid people? Or is God sending all of you all one by one in a row?

[DontAskMePeople]

I suggest some fresh air to calm down and catch your breath 👍

[Asker]

I have enough fresh air here, don't bother yourself thinking about that brother, think for yourself little bit instead

[DontAskMePeople]

A condom would've prevented this 🤣

[DontAskMePeople]

Such a stupid girl, I'll fuck her up is definitely not what any mother would say to there child, especially about that childs Aunty!

Just saying

[Asker]

I am not creating fake scenarios in my head you dick head.

[Asker]

Instead of hanging around on this app like a dog barking at everyone who asks question, just get a job.

[Jessikaah91]

Ew look at your potty mouth 😂 you're complaining about an opinion that you asked for, if you don't like what people say then don't post, simple! And I'm actually pretty sure the only one actually yapping is you, look how many comments you wrote bitching compared to how many he wrote lol. definitely needs some fresh air to calm down I think!

[Asker]

Pardon but there is a difference between telling an opinion respectfully without crossing the line and telling an opinion in an arrogant way. I didn't ask this question for you guys to come here and teach people manners. I won't ask you if I should post it or not. Who the hell you think you are? Are you his lawyer? Before worrying about my fresh air, ask yourself if you don't have anything else to do in life. Don't bother with clicking on my post and read the comments like a jobless just to talk empty to me.

[Asker]

@jessikaah91

[Asker]

I am not complaining about an opinion that I asked for. I didn't ask for an empty answer where he talked without knowing a shit :) it's not about if I like or don't like what people say, it's about the way of expressing an opinion. He doesn't even know why I opened this page and he talked like he has clue about everything and said to me "32 years old lives at home" even if I was 32, where the fuck else will I live? And talked about bank balance to me, if his answer is so normal then why I didn't have this chat with other users? Use some logic, that brain was given to you for free, don't be afraid to use it

[Asker]

Jessika, don't lose your precious time on my question, go answer those masturbation questions 😂 You are not a person to be taken seriously, don't lower your level further by replying to me, because you don't have any right to talk about it, you both become funny as you continue talking.

[Asker]

We are living a period where we hear advice from whores, I don't need your any advice, you can't take my answers, I can say such words to you that the pain of those words hits your stomach after 12 am at night

[Desi_Butcher]

Well it's got to hurt.
But there's the hint now. You gotta maintain distance from her.

[Asker]

She is older than me she should understand me instead of playing against me

[Asker]

I realized no one in this family is 1 faced

[Desi_Butcher]

I'll tell you something I learnt.
The moment you start feeling that the other person should understand something, you're going down the wrong way. It's gonna take you in a never-ending loop.
That doesn't happen. People don't understand. And you can only change yourself. Nobody else.

[Asker]

You are right they can change if they want to change, I can't control it

[Desi_Butcher]

Yes. You only have control over yourself.

[Asker]

So I should be more careful around her child? Because I thought we were close enough that even if I get angry on his son she won't mind it, but I thought wrong

[Asker]

On her son*

[Desi_Butcher]

That's absolutely right. Don't ever yell upon him or be stern with him.

[Asker]

But if her own sister yelled at her son she wouldn't mind it, why is she minding it when I yell, I am aunt of my nephew I am not stranger for him

[Asker]

I am tired of people who gets offended easily, if I won't be able to act natural around my own family, where the hell am I be able to act natural

[Desi_Butcher]

Maybe she's the same with the older sister too. And you're just not aware.
Thing is there's no answer to 'why'. People would mind something or get offended by something and then keep it in their hearts forever. Won't even tell you. And that grows into hate or whatever over time. So you wouldn't really know unless she's a wise and cool minded person and you can have a quiet fruitful discussion.

[Asker]

I don't know but she wouldn't say about her own sister like "don't enter that girl's room again" she wouldn't talk about her own sister as "that girl" to his son

[Asker]

Her son*

[Asker]

I thought I was close to her like sisters

[Asker]

I am tired of trying to act carefully around my own family just because someone will get offended, do they care if I will get offended or sad? No. Why do I overthink about it so much I don't know why

[Desi_Butcher]

Wanna follow me so we can DM?

[Asker]

Sure

[Anonymous]

Stay out of it but if I was looking after a laptop its going in the safe

[Asker]

I felt little bit bad after hearing that words from his mom

[In_Trance]

I wouldn't think anything of it

[Asker]

I didn't ask what you would do

[In_Trance]

That's correct

[Anonymous]

Stay out of it

[Asker]

I think so too, I won't tell anything about it

[Opinion Owner]

Ok good