1 yIn Canada my teachers never seemed to help me when I asked for help, then my mother would go in and yell at the teachers and principle and embarrass me so I stopped telling her. The only teacher who seemed to care and protect me was my 8th grade teacher which is funny because everyone was scared of him but he would shout and slam desks just joking around but everyone misunderstood and took it as he didn't like them if he did that. Maybe that is why he kept an eye on me because he seen I wasn't scared of him and I would laugh at the things he did. He even let me sign up for the tech school I wanted to join. Where as my main teacher was trying to send me to a hard school because I was smart enough, even though I didn't want to go lol. Most teachers don't care if you get bullied and if you do get bullied they think its your own fault, which is why they ignore or tell you to go sit down. I learned as I got older fuck the teachers and just be violent, it works and makes others scared of you. Plus make lots of friends because no one targets you if you are never alone.
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1 y“Tru cuz teachers are soft and they wanna make us soft to. They damage kids with Marxist bs” Wrong ❌
The good teachers (which were the majority growing up) would make it an object lesson to teach children HOW to think, not WHAT to think using different articles & highlighting different articles & showcasing both sides of an argument with reputtable sources. It was never political-based, it was apolitical.
An example of a lesson: Okay class, today we will be talking about whether or not street ‘art’ is vandilism or truly art you’ll be given five articles to choose from please highlight what is supportive of your claim in yellow while supportive of the other in blue & neutral in purple. Then we would share our thoughts and make our case to the rest of the class.
History was taught from the unobjective truth, even debunking myths based on information we have now and outside the bias of the past. That is just how it be.
Teachers would take sides of bullies and treat me like dirt also when I cried they said “grow up boys don’t cry” which made me cry more. Pushing away that bias from a few bad eggs, I praise my teachers for giving me a good education & teachers don’t deserve all this hate especially women teachers.
P. S. In college there are classes where professors have you read & study Karl Marx’s manifesto in the same way some highschools have you read Mein Kampf though it isn’t to promote the ideologies of some wacky individuals, it is to study with historical context in mind.
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1 yThe purpose of the school system today is to indoctrinate children, not educate them.
This has been the case for decades.
There are now at least 30 years of young people in America who were steeped in a far left Marxist indoctrination and taught to hate their own country and to tear it down.
And so many of them are voting age now and have radically transformed the electorate to vote against its own interests and in favor of a ruling class of globalists.
Independence and individualism, perhaps the most important block in the foundation America was founded upon have become enemy number one for these Marxist automatons. Conformity to authority and collectivism are now the expected values. Having not received a proper education these populations are too ignorant to understand that they are digging their own grave. And in the process they are digging the graves of the rest of us too.
They despise America, the greatest nation in the history of the human race and want to "fundamentally transform" it into a third world shithole so the Democrat's party bosses have full control over every aspect of your life.
They have taken control of education, they have taken control of the dissemination of information, they have taken over the communication system. That means they control the country. We are one election away from the end of America.
VOTE DEMOCRATS OUT!
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1 yThis is from frustrated teacher:
I used to go to work, have my lesson plans and teach my lessons. It was a joy to go to work. It still is.
one year before Covid, I had a really bad group. Multiple students with issues. Running out of the class. Planning suicide. Flipping desks. Stealing. I went to my supervisor for help.
“Write down everything” the principal came to observe my lesson, one of the boys was acting out. “Call the parents”.
2 weeks of daily notes … to 2 months. I asked what is the next step. I already met with the parents and have a behavior chart in place.
okay, we will all meet with the parents. And we all did. 5 months passed. Nothing improved and no plans. at this point… I went to the school special ed team… as they type up report after report… I asked what’s the next step… just take notes they said. I stroked out pissed off.
Kids continue to act out. Sometimes the counselor comes to observe or do investigations. Soon… 7 months passed. At this point I stopped writing notes.
the lesson? No one cares.now when I talk to teachers with behavioral students… they put so much effort into writing down notes and creating behavior chart for the students. I told her to not put so much energy because at the end no one cares.
the school had a meeting without that teacher… the consequences lol… if the kid gets certain positive notes the parents will take her to target 😂27 Reply- 1 y
Great punishment?
This may not answer your question directly… however, teachers always get blame first. It’s okay… that doesn’t change why I love teaching.
I still love my students and I believe every child can learn. Including the suicidal kid. He is older now and is taking meds and has a full time teacher following him around.
Let me tell you. There are a lot of teachers who have their own issues and don’t want to work. But there are many others who pour their heart out to love and teach these kids.
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Here is another example…
I had 3 “bad” kids / years ago. But I love them all. One was a none issues… Kayden. An only child. I notice that he is a little diff… he was sitting in the back … after a few days. I told him from now on he will sit next to me. He was so diligent and did so well. I call and told the parents how well he is doing and he is ry good in math and loves science. One day he quietly told me that his daddy hit his mom And his mom was crying. I took time to listen in.
He moved on to the next grade. The new teacher told me there was child service investigation in his family and that this kid was bad. My heart sank. The teacher continued saying the father complained that the kid was being bullied. Much more issues followed that kid that year.
As you can see… a teacher has a lot of power with kids… we can make a huge impact/chsbr their life or we can destroy that kid.
At the same time… we get no support and often blame for what is out of our control.
None change the way I feel
About every child… sometimes they just wants to be heard… sometimes they just needed a little hug… and I take that kid aside to listen for 2 minutes… I give all my students free hugs… by the way… we are not allow to do any of that… I don’t like to curse… but guess what!! Fuck them. I give them hugs and give big smiles even when they are call “trouble” kids by other teachers. - 1 y
To answer your question,
I learned, school la has nothing to do with kids. It’s about body counts and money. And teach them to be followers. - 1 y
Ok so what ur rebuttal is a logical fallacy because I never said ALL teachers were bad and I was just pointing out inadequacies. The entitlement from teachers and whiny behavior is also a problem. When something a problem is nuanced you need to take constructive construction from other people how bout maybe practicing what you preach. The moral relativism gets asinine.
Hey bro I get it that you individually put a lot of work into helping a troubled student. I have autism and ADHD and I was a troubled student and the teachers have like a bias most the time towards the neurtopyicals over neurodivergency and troubled teens can u look up double empathy problem it will help u explain what I mean. And if u look what I mean about sticking up for yourself teachers are up against f*cked up rules by the district so it doesn't matter how good you try I had good teachers and I appreciated there efgorts I'm not saying all teachers are bad don't get all offended I'm saying there's an issue affecting kids. - 1 y
Thank you for reading all that nonsense I wrote … I don’t often talk about my job since it’s nothing I can change.
I am agreeing with you. And not offended if that how I came off.
I am sadden by how little we as teachers can do。 the bureaucracy system is unbreakable. My point is I give up and close my door to do what I can for anyone 1 child I can reach.
The bigger pictures my dear gag friend… is the goal of the system is to make sure all of us are beat down. So you understand that?
Do you/did you get support from your parents? - 1 y
We cool I just wanted to share my thoughts.
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I understand teachers and kids both have struggles. I don't want teachers to get coddled I hear people say kids get coddled all the time but teachers happens to as well. I'm happy to see good teachers but they are gonna get beaten down and it's gonna take all of us to take on this problem.
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Anonymous(25-29)1 yI was a bullying victim myself, both to teachers and classmates. It’s evolutionary biology. If they side with you, they side with a victim, which decreases their chances of survival. We are to blame too because we don’t know how to protect ourselves. We are to blame when bullying happens after we provoked the bullied (which I did). The softest kid in the class was never bullied. But I was because I dared to insult my future bullies. But don’t worry, bullies are not the most powerful kids in the hierarchy. They are bullies because they are weak too. The most powerful are the most popular kids. They don’t bully you but they won’t respect you either. When you ask for help, they blame you too. Or they don’t step in enough to help you with the bullies because they would ruin their reputation.
The conclusion is: if you want to succeed, you have to be the most popular kid, not the bully or the victim. That could translate into being one of the most respected person in your circle later, whatever that means. It sucks. That’s life.00 Reply
1 yThis is why I think there are so many school shootings.
If people actually provided help to kids who needed help we wouldn’t have these tragadies. A lot of kids don’t come home from school to a home with love. They just LIVE in constant shit without any help. It’s only time until they just lose it. I feel bad for everyone involved at that point but the support system needs to change.43 Reply- 1 y
You right but I didn't wanna overwhelm people with information or no productive would happen. I have autism and adhd Nd been through a lot of Bs in school, being misunderstood by teachers. Wanted some fluid conversations with people about this subject.
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I went through a lot of unique stuff that this society doesn't want to acknowledge like a toxic mother and double empathy problem when trying to address what I'm experiencing being bullied and being lost and just wanting to have values and connect with my peers and have fun live life u know. Don't wanna get to personal on a live post, but do wanna say people are willfully ignorant about certain ppls experiences.
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Damn. I know that can be a lot. I too was constantly bullied but not at all after high school.
The reasons for why I was bullied for in grade school were the reasons why I made friends in college. Honestly, surrounding yourself with people like me helped me. Joining clubs helped a lot. Especially theatre, everyone there is super accepting for who you are. My suggestion is to join clubs and seek a school counselor or school therapist or even just a cool teacher to visit.
I’m sorry that you’re dealing with this because I can only imagine how much you’re really experiencing. The important thing is to keep talking to people about how you feel and what you’re experiencing. My inbox is open if you feel like you wanna chat and blow off steam and just need a listening ear.
3.7K opinions shared on Family & Friends topic. Teachers and school administrators are just trying to make it to the finish line so they can retire with a full pension. This means no controversy and you must never attract attention to yourself. You never want to be involved in a lawsuit.
I was an administrator in a K-12 system. There was a kid that was bullied by another kid. Nobody would help this kid because nobody wanted to get involved. The kid who was bullied called the cops and said he was being assaulted which was true. A cop came to the school and arrested the kid. The kids parents had to get an attorney and take time off from work and go to court.
The superintendent used to call me at 5AM if there was a snowstorm and ask me if he should call off school. I used to tell him that if a bus got in and accident there could be a lawsuit. He would always call school off.
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Your first point is kind of jaded laziness. I don't care about that, if it's a serious issue affecting society, in a GenZ and it crosses lines into death threats and stuff. I don't know why death threats and degeneracy aren't enough to get older people to care. You guys whine about the youth but don't actually work to fix stuff. I don't understand what you're saying. The bullied kid always called school off? Or the bully? Either way I don't see how that's relevant the problem went away or the kid got help another way but it became somebody else's problem if you don't care
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If your threatening a kids life or physically assaulting kids u should go to juvie. No more coddling. Some kinds. of bullying are serious. Teasing or mean words they should learn resilience. But there's
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1 yEvolutionary biology, mostly. Those who are most likely to victimize are also most likely to succeed. You can’t point to a single universally recognized success story in which the successful person didn’t step on one or more people along the way. We inherently acknowledge that life is competitive, even though it’s NOT anymore. Coupled with the perpetuated fable of resource scarcity, most people honestly believe that they will die if they’re unwilling to destroy another human being for their own welfare. So teachers bolster idiot bullies and children of adults with influence. Because that’s what has ALWAYS been done, and their education means jack squat in the face of their FEELINGS.
10 Reply 502 opinions shared on Family & Friends topic. It's very simply because the school boards prioritize student count (which is directly tied to money) over all other considerations. If students who behaved badly were punished, some would eventually have to be expelled. And schools would have to defend themselves against lawsuits from parents that the school threw out their perfect little angel.
If this happened, they might have to cut into the salaries of all of the administration staff, and the senior administration might have to actually do some work, and lose some clout and power, and, well, THAT'S not going to happen.00 Reply525 opinions shared on Family & Friends topic. Partially bc the bully's parents are louder and more present than the parents of the victims, who show up once in a blue moon and presume everything will work itself out.
Teachers cave to (1) their favorites, (2) the administration's favorites, (3) parents who bully them, fund major programs, etc. etc. etc. The key is to be a more active parent so you're present for your kids and prevent teachers from running rampant. (I know this first hand.)30 ReplyFrom my prospective it’s because they ether don’t care, or it’s because they favor the student that is bullying the other student. Especially if that student has decent grades, is “attractive”, or is athletic. Or the other student is somewhat problematic. The reason I put “attractive” is because the pretty privilege definitely exists. I came to realization the other night believe it or not. I was driving home and I realized how a lot of the female teachers treated the athletic boys and how weird they were with them. It was almost as if they were living their “high school fantasies” that they didn’t get to live when they were students. I remember a few female teachers would sometimes sit on their desks and shit like that. I remember how they would talk softer to them. I could go on and on about it.
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Laziness mixed with stupidity
The kid claiming to be bullied is actually the bully/it's mutual bullying
Because the "bullying" is actually someone just being rude and we can't police behavior that aggressively, so we tell the "victim" to stop causing conflict over it. On this point, half the people on GAG, you included, OP, have talked rudely here. It's not bullying, it's just a fact of life.00 ReplyAfter the Columbine shooting I was active trying to work out my trauma as a former bullied kid. A teacher told me that some teachers used the bullying social structure of high school society to maintain control. He wasn't specific, but it wouldn't surprise me if this was true.
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1 ykinda depends on the teacher
some are stupid or don't care and want it to be over with bc of burn out or whatever reason. some praise and literally favor good students bc they're usually strict or empathetic
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1 yIn my experience as someone who was bullied heavily in middle school is that the kids who bully are usually kids with powerful/rich parents or of a protected class the school district likes money and losing the funding of rich patrons or loosing money from a lawsuit. Because of the all powerful green the bully gets away with all kinds of things until the bullied fights back then the school uses that kid as a example that fighting isn’t allowed on campus and their reputation is firmly established and they get the all important federal funding. Mine stopped after the hockey star ran headlong into the lockers after trying to slam myself and a friend in a wheelchair into them. The concussion and the inability to play the rest of the season saw me left alone for the rest of high school.
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1 yThe thing about Marxism is applies labels to groups of people who are “privileged” vs “intersectional”. It fails to recognize the greatest minority is the individual. It’s a huge mental shortcut. Because understanding the individual requires mental effort. With the right judgment that it’s how you apply love, tough love and if necessary harsh reprimands.
00 ReplyThat was junior high for me. I was targeted by teachers as well as students. I ended up flunking grade 9 but was pushed through to high school anyway. The junior high brass said I would have to spend four years there, but surprise surprise, I graduated in three. What a difference good teachers can make, not to mention not having to spend all day with the same group of degenerates.
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1 yProbably because teachers secretly prefer bullies.
It happened to me. I was beaten bloody by a kid in 4th grade, and I was suspended, not him. When I came back I was made to write sentences "I will not provoke *bully's name* ever again"
It's mostly female teachers that are like that.01 Reply- 1 y
It's schools handling of bullies that creates school shooters by the way.
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1 yDo they? I know many schools instituted "no tolerance" rules so that when a kid flattens a wannabe bully, both get suspended, which to me makes no sense as the target gets punished for refusing to be a victim, but the rest I really never saw.
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1 yThey fear the parents. Obnoxious kid = obnoxious parents. Apple doesn't fall far.
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It's time for people to grow a backbone.
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They don't work for the police or city either...
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Random vent lol
3.4K opinions shared on Family & Friends topic. It must be the area you live in. Nothing like that happens here.
22 ReplyBlaming bully victims should be enabled more for not fighting back. Bullys are as scared as their victims of getting hit and will stop once its no longer worth it.
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Anonymous(45 Plus)1 yTeachers today blame the victims and enable/coddle the bullies because they do not have the training to deal with the situations, and instead of punishing the bullies they attempt to "Appeal to their better natures" which they do not have, and the teachers do not how to support the victims as it is not a part of "Teacher Training" these days.
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u 1 yI would assume for the same reason that Leftists protest in favor of terrorists.
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Lol, they coddle bully to hopefully reform him and appear conflict resolution and bullshit solving problem
They blame the victim to virtue signal bout ending bullying
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The road to hell paved with people who believe they have good intentions. . . but it's still the road to hell!
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I agree I viewed some teachers on the road to hell as troubled teen.
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And rightists support mass deportations ala the Hitler era.
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Yes, i support the deportation of anyone who entered the country illegally.
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These immigrants are keeping the U. S. economy humming. Besides, how would you deport 20,000,000 folk sans the enactment of Hitleresque laws?
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@handsomelad70 ya true they can do that but that doesn't excuse the virtue signalling of ignoring the very real concerns of mass immigration and not having based real discussions of where to put them. Not listening to libertarian arguments for and against
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@handsomelad70 anyway that wasn't relevant
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If u wanna debate with me about immigration we can have a discussion with mutual respect if you want
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@handsomelad70 You constantly call things "Hitleresque" and that is PRECISELY the problem with politics in this country. You can't just respectfully disagree but you must call names and spew hate.
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That is ironic that those people call everything Hitler or Nazi end up being Fascist themseld
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1 ycause honestly as a teacher you have no way to stop the bully. so i guess it's easier to just blame the victim and make them deal with it.
that's the perfect recipe for school shootings by the way.
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i mean there's no legal way to punish a bully if you're not catching them do it. and they're not so stupid to do it while you're watching so there's really no effective method a teacher can use to get bullies to change their behavior and the bullies are well aware of that fact. so if you get involved, chances are the victim will suffer even more.
Because the teachers feed off their weakness. Have you ever been mad a person or a pet and notice their reaction caused you to feel greater anger? It's the same thing. Most teachers are liberal and therefore weak minded.
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1 yI have often wondered, it is the same here in the UK and not much has changed since i was in school. It is easier for them to do that but there is also posh privilege.
00 Reply1.2K opinions shared on Family & Friends topic. Road to hell is paved with good intentions. Same reason leftists protest in favor of terrorists, murders and criminals.
00 ReplyI used to get bullied and no one did anything about it so I beat them all up and they stopped.
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True but the problem is teachers can punish you for that
502 opinions shared on Family & Friends topic. They are cowards who are afraid of lawsuits so guess who has to pay the price? That's right, the bullied kid.
10 ReplyBecause its easier to side with the bullies than actually do something about the bullying.
Well unless the bullies have been enough stupid to pick on someone with access to guns.
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Anonymous(18-24)1 yIt is the cause of school shootings but they always blame the gun. The Trump shooter was bullied in school and all they are talking about in Congress is the gun, not one word about him being bullied.
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Anonymous(36-45)1 yI doubt they actually "blame" the victim. What they're probably TRYING to do is give the victim some advice on how to avoid being so much of a target in the future.
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1 yBecause it's easier to do it than to deal with the bullies
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But its kids lives we're dealing with
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Well that is the reality unfortunately.
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Fuck that this is why I believe in edgy "handle it yourself" solutions CUZ AUTHORIRY CAN BE PUSSY
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Personally I wouldn't be like that I was the teacher. I would encourage the victim to speak up more and reason
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They prefer. pussyifying the students and. blsckvand white Marxist damage the student
1 yBecause they're leading toxic, decaying America's decline into the ash-heap of history.
00 ReplyBecause they’re bullies themselves.
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Anonymous(25-29)1 yBecause they are liberals and farming future terrorists is what they do best
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1 yI've never known of it
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I've no idea what you're saying no more
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Im talking about teachers treating troubled kids and Mean Abusive degenerate dangerous kids inadequalitety and mishandling bullying
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Teachers being mean to mean kids and kids that are bullying others?
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No goofy kids coddling mean kids
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I will just nod and say okay
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I meant teachers coddling degenerate abusive kids
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I've not seen it I can't comment, I've heard about it when some get fired or something. I know some just can't cope and don't want to maybe lose the job so they don't do as much as they should, I couldn't be a teacher I know that much
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