Why do teachers victim blame bully victims, target troubled misunderstood good kids and enable/coddle degenerate harmful kids?

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MisterWack · Accepted Answer

“Tru cuz teachers are soft and they wanna make us soft to. They damage kids with Marxist bs” Wrong ❌

The good teachers (which were the majority growing up) would make it an object lesson to teach children HOW to think, not WHAT to think using different articles & highlighting different articles & showcasing both sides of an argument with reputtable sources. It was never political-based, it was apolitical.

An example of a lesson: Okay class, today we will be talking about whether or not street ‘art’ is vandilism or truly art you’ll be given five articles to choose from please highlight what is supportive of your claim in yellow while supportive of the other in blue & neutral in purple. Then we would share our thoughts and make our case to the rest of the class.

History was taught from the unobjective truth, even debunking myths based on information we have now and outside the bias of the past. That is just how it be.

Teachers would take sides of bullies and treat me like dirt also when I cried they said “grow up boys don’t cry” which made me cry more. Pushing away that bias from a few bad eggs, I praise my teachers for giving me a good education & teachers don’t deserve all this hate especially women teachers.

P. S. In college there are classes where professors have you read & study Karl Marx’s manifesto in the same way some highschools have you read Mein Kampf though it isn’t to promote the ideologies of some wacky individuals, it is to study with historical context in mind.

RingOfFire · Accepted Answer

The purpose of the school system today is to indoctrinate children, not educate them.

This has been the case for decades.

There are now at least 30 years of young people in America who were steeped in a far left Marxist indoctrination and taught to hate their own country and to tear it down.

And so many of them are voting age now and have radically transformed the electorate to vote against its own interests and in favor of a ruling class of globalists.

Independence and individualism, perhaps the most important block in the foundation America was founded upon have become enemy number one for these Marxist automatons. Conformity to authority and collectivism are now the expected values. Having not received a proper education these populations are too ignorant to understand that they are digging their own grave. And in the process they are digging the graves of the rest of us too.

They despise America, the greatest nation in the history of the human race and want to "fundamentally transform" it into a third world shithole so the Democrat's party bosses have full control over every aspect of your life.

They have taken control of education, they have taken control of the dissemination of information, they have taken over the communication system. That means they control the country. We are one election away from the end of America.

VOTE DEMOCRATS OUT!

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midnightmoon05 · Accepted Answer

This is from frustrated teacher:
I used to go to work, have my lesson plans and teach my lessons. It was a joy to go to work. It still is.
one year before Covid, I had a really bad group. Multiple students with issues. Running out of the class. Planning suicide. Flipping desks. Stealing. I went to my supervisor for help.
“Write down everything” the principal came to observe my lesson, one of the boys was acting out. “Call the parents”.
2 weeks of daily notes … to 2 months. I asked what is the next step. I already met with the parents and have a behavior chart in place.
okay, we will all meet with the parents. And we all did. 5 months passed. Nothing improved and no plans. at this point… I went to the school special ed team… as they type up report after report… I asked what’s the next step… just take notes they said. I stroked out pissed off.
Kids continue to act out. Sometimes the counselor comes to observe or do investigations. Soon… 7 months passed. At this point I stopped writing notes.
the lesson? No one cares.

now when I talk to teachers with behavioral students… they put so much effort into writing down notes and creating behavior chart for the students. I told her to not put so much energy because at the end no one cares.
the school had a meeting without that teacher… the consequences lol… if the kid gets certain positive notes the parents will take her to target 😂

PeachyPie93 · Accepted Answer

In Canada my teachers never seemed to help me when I asked for help, then my mother would go in and yell at the teachers and principle and embarrass me so I stopped telling her. The only teacher who seemed to care and protect me was my 8th grade teacher which is funny because everyone was scared of him but he would shout and slam desks just joking around but everyone misunderstood and took it as he didn't like them if he did that. Maybe that is why he kept an eye on me because he seen I wasn't scared of him and I would laugh at the things he did. He even let me sign up for the tech school I wanted to join. Where as my main teacher was trying to send me to a hard school because I was smart enough, even though I didn't want to go lol. Most teachers don't care if you get bullied and if you do get bullied they think its your own fault, which is why they ignore or tell you to go sit down. I learned as I got older fuck the teachers and just be violent, it works and makes others scared of you. Plus make lots of friends because no one targets you if you are never alone.

Anonymous · Answer

I was a bullying victim myself, both to teachers and classmates. It’s evolutionary biology. If they side with you, they side with a victim, which decreases their chances of survival. We are to blame too because we don’t know how to protect ourselves. We are to blame when bullying happens after we provoked the bullied (which I did). The softest kid in the class was never bullied. But I was because I dared to insult my future bullies. But don’t worry, bullies are not the most powerful kids in the hierarchy. They are bullies because they are weak too. The most powerful are the most popular kids. They don’t bully you but they won’t respect you either. When you ask for help, they blame you too. Or they don’t step in enough to help you with the bullies because they would ruin their reputation.
The conclusion is: if you want to succeed, you have to be the most popular kid, not the bully or the victim. That could translate into being one of the most respected person in your circle later, whatever that means. It sucks. That’s life.

snowboarder720 · Answer

This is why I think there are so many school shootings.
If people actually provided help to kids who needed help we wouldn’t have these tragadies. A lot of kids don’t come home from school to a home with love. They just LIVE in constant shit without any help. It’s only time until they just lose it. I feel bad for everyone involved at that point but the support system needs to change.

exitseven · Answer

Teachers and school administrators are just trying to make it to the finish line so they can retire with a full pension. This means no controversy and you must never attract attention to yourself. You never want to be involved in a lawsuit.

I was an administrator in a K-12 system. There was a kid that was bullied by another kid. Nobody would help this kid because nobody wanted to get involved. The kid who was bullied called the cops and said he was being assaulted which was true. A cop came to the school and arrested the kid. The kids parents had to get an attorney and take time off from work and go to court.

The superintendent used to call me at 5AM if there was a snowstorm and ask me if he should call off school. I used to tell him that if a bus got in and accident there could be a lawsuit. He would always call school off.

Chazmatazz269 · Answer

Evolutionary biology, mostly. Those who are most likely to victimize are also most likely to succeed. You can’t point to a single universally recognized success story in which the successful person didn’t step on one or more people along the way. We inherently acknowledge that life is competitive, even though it’s NOT anymore. Coupled with the perpetuated fable of resource scarcity, most people honestly believe that they will die if they’re unwilling to destroy another human being for their own welfare. So teachers bolster idiot bullies and children of adults with influence. Because that’s what has ALWAYS been done, and their education means jack squat in the face of their FEELINGS.

MrOracle · Answer

It's very simply because the school boards prioritize student count (which is directly tied to money) over all other considerations. If students who behaved badly were punished, some would eventually have to be expelled. And schools would have to defend themselves against lawsuits from parents that the school threw out their perfect little angel.

If this happened, they might have to cut into the salaries of all of the administration staff, and the senior administration might have to actually do some work, and lose some clout and power, and, well, THAT'S not going to happen.

DishLady · Answer

Partially bc the bully's parents are louder and more present than the parents of the victims, who show up once in a blue moon and presume everything will work itself out.

Teachers cave to (1) their favorites, (2) the administration's favorites, (3) parents who bully them, fund major programs, etc. etc. etc. The key is to be a more active parent so you're present for your kids and prevent teachers from running rampant. (I know this first hand.)

pethouse · Answer

From my prospective it’s because they ether don’t care, or it’s because they favor the student that is bullying the other student. Especially if that student has decent grades, is “attractive”, or is athletic. Or the other student is somewhat problematic. The reason I put “attractive” is because the pretty privilege definitely exists. I came to realization the other night believe it or not. I was driving home and I realized how a lot of the female teachers treated the athletic boys and how weird they were with them. It was almost as if they were living their “high school fantasies” that they didn’t get to live when they were students. I remember a few female teachers would sometimes sit on their desks and shit like that. I remember how they would talk softer to them. I could go on and on about it.

BetaBucks · Answer

Three reasons:

Laziness mixed with stupidity

The kid claiming to be bullied is actually the bully/it's mutual bullying

Because the "bullying" is actually someone just being rude and we can't police behavior that aggressively, so we tell the "victim" to stop causing conflict over it. On this point, half the people on GAG, you included, OP, have talked rudely here. It's not bullying, it's just a fact of life.

236color · Answer

After the Columbine shooting I was active trying to work out my trauma as a former bullied kid. A teacher told me that some teachers used the bullying social structure of high school society to maintain control. He wasn't specific, but it wouldn't surprise me if this was true.

MemeSupreme · Answer

kinda depends on the teacher

some are stupid or don't care and want it to be over with bc of burn out or whatever reason. some praise and literally favor good students bc they're usually strict or empathetic

at the end of the day most teachers don't make a difference to kids but some do

Falcon12345 · Answer

In my experience as someone who was bullied heavily in middle school is that the kids who bully are usually kids with powerful/rich parents or of a protected class the school district likes money and losing the funding of rich patrons or loosing money from a lawsuit. Because of the all powerful green the bully gets away with all kinds of things until the bullied fights back then the school uses that kid as a example that fighting isn’t allowed on campus and their reputation is firmly established and they get the all important federal funding. Mine stopped after the hockey star ran headlong into the lockers after trying to slam myself and a friend in a wheelchair into them. The concussion and the inability to play the rest of the season saw me left alone for the rest of high school.

blueonblack22 · Answer

The thing about Marxism is applies labels to groups of people who are “privileged” vs “intersectional”.  It fails to recognize the greatest minority is the individual.  It’s a huge mental shortcut. Because understanding the individual requires mental effort. With the right judgment that it’s how you apply love, tough love and if necessary harsh reprimands.

82lynx · Answer

That was junior high for me. I was targeted by teachers as well as students. I ended up flunking grade 9 but was pushed through to high school anyway. The junior high brass said I would have to spend four years there, but surprise surprise, I graduated in three. What a difference good teachers can make, not to mention not having to spend all day with the same group of degenerates.

worldscolide · Answer

Probably because teachers secretly prefer bullies.

It happened to me. I was beaten bloody by a kid in 4th grade, and I was suspended, not him. When I came back I was made to write sentences "I will not provoke *bully's name* ever again"

It's mostly female teachers that are like that.

LiamJHayden · Answer

Do they? I know many schools instituted "no tolerance" rules so that when a kid flattens a wannabe bully, both get suspended, which to me makes no sense as the target gets punished for refusing to be a victim, but the rest I really never saw.

dustybiker2 · Answer

They fear the parents. Obnoxious kid = obnoxious parents. Apple doesn't fall far.

Nikki1989 · Answer

It must be the area you live in. Nothing like that happens here.

Nirmroth · Answer

Blaming bully victims should be enabled more for not fighting back. Bullys are as scared as their victims of getting hit and will stop once its no longer worth it.

Anonymous · Answer

Teachers today blame the victims and enable/coddle the bullies because they do not have the training to deal with the situations, and instead of punishing the bullies they attempt to "Appeal to their better natures" which they do not have, and the teachers do not how to support the victims as it is not a part of "Teacher Training" these days.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

I would assume for the same reason that Leftists protest in favor of terrorists.

genericname85 · Answer

cause honestly as a teacher you have no way to stop the bully. so i guess it's easier to just blame the victim and make them deal with it.  that's the perfect recipe for school shootings by the way.

Dongie · Answer

Because the teachers feed off their weakness. Have you ever been mad a person or a pet and notice their reaction caused you to feel greater anger? It's the same thing. Most teachers are liberal and therefore weak minded.

DarkLegacy · Answer

I have often wondered, it is the same here in the UK and not much has changed since i was in school. It is easier for them to do that but there is also posh privilege.

Phoenix98 · Answer

Road to hell is paved with good intentions. Same reason leftists protest in favor of terrorists, murders and criminals.

massb · Answer

I used to get bullied and no one did anything about it so I beat them all up and they stopped.

Juxtapose · Answer

They are cowards who are afraid of lawsuits so guess who has to pay the price? That's right, the bullied kid.

Pohjolan · Answer

Because its easier to side with the bullies than actually do something about the bullying. Well unless the bullies have been enough stupid to pick on someone with access to guns.

Anonymous · Answer

It is the cause of school shootings but they always blame the gun. The Trump shooter was bullied in school and all they are talking about in Congress is the gun, not one word about him being bullied.

Anonymous · Answer

I doubt they actually "blame" the victim. What they're probably TRYING to do is give the victim some advice on how to avoid being so much of a target in the future.

Aiko_E_Lara · Answer

Because it's easier to do it than to deal with the bullies

handsomelad70 · Answer

Because they're leading toxic, decaying America's decline into the ash-heap of history.

Peridot25 · Answer

Because they’re bullies themselves.

Anonymous · Answer

Because they are liberals and farming future terrorists is what they do best

MrGSpotHer · Answer

I've never known of it

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