I need help but I don’t wanna be rude?

[Anonymous]

There is a girl in my one direction group chat who is so annoying (she turns 24 soon so she’s literally an adult) like yes she really sweet but she tells us other group members every single detail that happens in her life like recently she scraped her leg and she’s asking if anyone is a Dr in the gc (I’m the oldest in the gc and I tell you that no one is a dr) I tell her no but go see one and then texts saying that her cousin is an EMT and I’m like (in my head) then why didn’t you text him first like omg she also tells us whenever one of her family members is in the hospital or passes away and I’m like I’m sorry take as much time as you need (being very supportive and caring) but she keeps telling us every single detail and honestly she’s making me feel so freaking depressed but no one wants to tell her to stop coz they don’t wanna be rude! I would remove her from the gc but I’m not the creator of it but the creator left the gc a while ago! HELP! What should I do without being rude and making her feel bad!

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1 y

Oh yea also to add on a few weeks ago she asked us how long it takes to make frozen fries in an air fryer like as if we know like we’re not the internet 😭

[CuriousHubby]

This happens a lot with lonely people! She is a boring irritating women and her life is the chat.

Really talk with the others and make. Anew chat without her!

If you go public being annoyed at her she will bring those that are stupidly loyal or just sheep for drama against you. Making it a fight which it's just her whining!

You will lose a few people but I'd leave and make a new chat about the subject! No one really wants to hear all this!

Except the guys crushing on her. Who thinks all her messages are for them alone in secret.

[Avicenna]

Someone has to step forward and take action. Worrying about being perceived as rude is just keeping you from doing that.

[Kayla45]

So just tell her to stop, or kick her from the group. It’s that easy.

[Anonymous]

Poor girl, you show her no sympathy or respect and you’re not sorry. What happens if you’re in that situation. Think before you speak

[Asker]

I don’t tell people I barely know about my personal life every in that gc has personally messaged me saying she’s getting annoying about it but they don’t wanna be rude about so it’s not just me so you think before you speak

[Asker]

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