How to get my mate to understand that dealing with my family is a burden?

[Anonymous]

Since they took the COVID 19 shots they have been sick and I have been dealing with them for 4 years sick and serious health issues. It has taken a toll on me mental and emotional due to their health decline - right now dealing with a family loss and another w sister who took sick a month ago. I have a lot going on with my children and tending to them. I tried explaining to my mate that I can't deal with my family and am tired of dealing with them as they put this burden on me with their constant stress.

[CuriousHubby]

Does he deal with them a lot or does he just hear your stories?

Make him help! Any boyfriend worth it would and if he won't then you know to cut him loose! Really he is not listening or trying to relate!

Is mate English for friend or boyfriend? Either way if they won't accept you have a lot... With kids and are pushing for attention or sex just drop them they are toxic!

[Asker]

No he doesn't , but I have too and I'm tired of dealing with them which in returns weighs on our relationship

[Asker]

I don't have a lot - telling him I'm tired of being bothered with my family

[CuriousHubby]

Then have him go over for a day and help! Your mom would probably like that. Again of he is worth it he will help if not dump him for not caring about how much pressure mom is under!

[Asker]

Their illnesses and burdens of being sick which are at the hands of themselves taking experimental vaccines and now complaining about their health

[Asker]

My mate isn't obligated to help and I'm not obligated to be their care taker ! I don't want to be bothered with my families health issues they caused themselves

[Asker]

My mom isn't under pressure I am dealing with my mom , grandma, and now sister being burden with their health declines !

[CuriousHubby]

Ooo very different well good luck your boyfriend won't ever care much then!

[Asker]

Neither will I have enough dealing with me and my kids and not obligated to take care of my parents or sister !

[Asker]

I'm ready to move forward with my children and mate to peace